What is your best flirting technique?

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JordynJayne · Accepted Answer

Men fold at the simplest things when it comes to flirting. Nothing crazy, something simple.

When you’re having a conversation, giggle at something he says and touch his soft spots like his arm, hand, or shoulder (depending on where you’re standing/sitting). Works. Every. Single. Time.

I know when I met my fiancé, I had pretended he had something in his hair, and I ran my fingers through his hair to “fix it”. We were cuffed since. Lol!

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

My idea of "flirting" is being snarky and sarcastic towards a guy: if he can dish it back, he's a keeper, lol.

But otherwise, I really suck at flirting: both giving and receiving it. I tell people point blank if they're interested in me: TELL ME. No games, flirting, or assuming I know. Otherwise, I'll just assume you're being friendly or nice to me.

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t flirt that often. When I do. Usually smile or run my hand through my hair.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I try to be polite and sweet and kind. But I vary based on the guy and his personality.

ShellyB · Answer

Sometimes existing is all it takes!! Or just acting friendly when they talk to you.

But, I listed some flirting techniques a couple days ago, they are mostly really obv., like:

Standing closer to him than you need to looking at him not staring but focused on him

Listening to him and asking questions like he is a wise genius and you are soaking up his wisdom

Smiling at him. Twirling your hair on a finger

Letting yourself brush against or touch him (without it seeming deliberate)

Standing in positions or doing other stuff to emphasize your body (hard to explain easy to see)

RavVid · Answer

Well I don't how to flirt other than give compliments that are genuine.

However if I like a girl I look her directly in the eyes then at the part of her body I really like. Then back to her eyes and smile.

I think if you give a girl the impression that any pair of tits works for you then you will get a stony response. On the other hand if it is her tits, legs, ass that is magic then they seem to be pleased. Sometimes they will be so pleased they will put a little impromptu show on. I like getting pervee participation.

This is perving rather than flirting but can be done in a toned down form. I really don't know that this is flirting or not. Best I can do anyway.

purplepoppy · Answer

I just stick my hand down his pants and whisper fuck me in his ear before giving the finger to his girlfriend as I lead him away.

Seriously though. First, Take an interest in something about him, guys aren't great at conversation but love attention. Second make sure he knows you're single. Third, don't be a bitch or cold. Guys want you moaning in bed not during the conversation.

Be like a bell, the dinner bell not an alarm bell.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

People told me I give off an innocent vibe, maybe it's because of the way I look at people, guys in this case.

Puppy dog eyes or simply just using eye contact is the only flirting I can do. Maybe if being helpful and open counts, then that too.

I can't flirt for shite.

Angelo75 · Answer

Never really needed to actively flirt.
I'd just be a good friend and analyse what bothers her the most. Then get her to feel very relaxed and open while talking to her. Letting her know I don't judge and I'm there to support her as a good friend.
Once she lowers her walls, I'll just give her lots of attention. It's not the fastest technique, but it always worked in my youth.

Nowadays I don't need to, cuz I'm married.

Emiliamazing · Answer

I don't have to worry much about flirting anymore, but when I want to really let him know how special he is to me I give him a little butt pinch and a kiss on the cheek 🥰😘

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'll just walk up to her and say " hi gorgeous can you spell me for me. She'll say M. E. I'll say you forgot the d. She'll say there's no d in me. I'll say you want mine in you? " it always makes them smile, laugh and I get her number. The last person I used that line on was my wife 35 years ago.

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

Wearing my bombshell bra and a tight fitting top lol

FunnyGiy · Answer

I like to smile. Sometimes I run my hand through my hair. Or talk to someone. Maybe wink.  The tactics I use really depends and sometimes I do it and not realize it and then I get embarrassed.

MrOracle · Answer

I get her laughing. How I do that depends on the girl, but I just talk to her and before long I can figure out something that will at least put a smile on her face if not a full belly laugh.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Smile. Always say something to spark a laugh. You know, the ones where she turns away and covers her mouth? Girls love to FEEL good. So make them feel good, and its in the bag.

Paulalove98 · Answer

I usually give a sweet smile and stare for a short while without trying to make it obvious lol.

NathanDavis · Answer

*CLICHÉ ALERT* being myself has ALWAYS worked great for me... never had a need to be a flirt

TadCurious · Answer

Gentle teasing (but not about something she might be insecure about) and touching her lightly on her arm while smiling.

weysally · Answer

bright eyes and a smile usually get attention

Anno2 · Answer

Getting emotional. It's a heavy cost compared to flirting but works very well.

A_Bell · Answer

Witty banter and friendly teasing. It's a big family thing.

serious · Answer

I never flirt. Never. Hence no flirting techniques from my side.

GoodManDave · Answer

I’m bad at it, even when I do it “naturally.” Mainly it’s just a bit awkward.

DiegoO · Answer

I honestly never developed a flirting technique in RL. Online, I forgot how to dot it because I haven't been part of a chat room, ages ago. 0 flirting technique.

slatyb · Answer

I say hello, ask their name, and listen when they are talking.

Texaskid1 · Answer

I place my hand on my crotch - that way her eyes will look in that direction and thus be able to see the outline of my man-package.

Tessa003 · Answer

I see a guy or girl I like... I open up and allow more cleavage.. and I walk by them smiling

DrBanana · Answer

Haha I can’t flirt for squat.  I just try to be my best cheerful self and see if that works, it’s hit and miss 😑

Hypermotard1916 · Answer

I say, "Will you be the bearer of the progeny..."

JonesT19 · Answer

whatever try... be truthful and honest before her eyes... sometimes be like unable to guess,

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I give them my best blue steel look and then say something stupid like... Hey sailor...

Andres77 · Answer

stare and smile... then look away and then look back.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Simple is best eye contact get closer odd excuse to touch there arm or leg. little teasing making girl laugh never hurt either.

TallAnon · Answer

Walk up to them and smile, then just chat for a bit. Honestly all I do, I suck at this, but it works.

Xavierwood · Answer

I usually just hit them with A “If I was stranded on a desert island and I could only bring one snack… it would be dat ass”  Good ice breaker.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Seems like I have forgotten how to flirt it's been years.

Babygirl_S · Answer

All I do is smile. I am too clumsy to do anything more.

Kelly6 · Answer

sexy fashion and approach them and start talking

krin_m · Answer

I normally give shoulder and neck massage (obviously not with strangers only with my girlfriends).

RandomGuy1032 · Answer

Creativity and high energy. For the technique i suggest men talk about the female. Flattery is key

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

standing in the corner hoping someone notices me.

AdithyaR · Answer

Turn around, run away and hope they didn't see me.

SnowedIn · Answer

Ask questions and be nice.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Smiling and forgetting about his personal space 😅

AsaKyo · Answer

I don't know how to flirt 🥴

TroyDT2 · Answer

I'm too direct to flirt.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I've never initiated flirting.

Guardian45 · Answer

Banter. What is your best flirting technique?

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Just hello nice to meet you

kellytheman · Answer

I am very charming and make a girl laugh.

BJP21 · Answer

You live around here? I live on the moon.

gerald5466 · Answer

I have that unspoken Rizz

msc545 · Answer

I say hello, what is your name?

BLP11520 · Answer

Tell my secrets😆

dustybiker · Answer

Honesty.

Jerkallot · Answer

Teasing an being funny

Blackcupcake · Answer

I don’t flirt

AlexEfron · Answer

Ignore

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