Men fold at the simplest things when it comes to flirting. Nothing crazy, something simple.
When you’re having a conversation, giggle at something he says and touch his soft spots like his arm, hand, or shoulder (depending on where you’re standing/sitting). Works. Every. Single. Time.
I know when I met my fiancé, I had pretended he had something in his hair, and I ran my fingers through his hair to “fix it”. We were cuffed since. Lol!
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My idea of "flirting" is being snarky and sarcastic towards a guy: if he can dish it back, he's a keeper, lol.
But otherwise, I really suck at flirting: both giving and receiving it. I tell people point blank if they're interested in me: TELL ME. No games, flirting, or assuming I know. Otherwise, I'll just assume you're being friendly or nice to me.
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I don’t flirt that often. When I do. Usually smile or run my hand through my hair.
I try to be polite and sweet and kind. But I vary based on the guy and his personality.
Sometimes existing is all it takes!! Or just acting friendly when they talk to you.
But, I listed some flirting techniques a couple days ago, they are mostly really obv., like:Standing closer to him than you need to looking at him not staring but focused on him
Listening to him and asking questions like he is a wise genius and you are soaking up his wisdom
Smiling at him. Twirling your hair on a finger
Letting yourself brush against or touch him (without it seeming deliberate)
Standing in positions or doing other stuff to emphasize your body (hard to explain easy to see)
Well I don't how to flirt other than give compliments that are genuine.
However if I like a girl I look her directly in the eyes then at the part of her body I really like. Then back to her eyes and smile.
I think if you give a girl the impression that any pair of tits works for you then you will get a stony response. On the other hand if it is her tits, legs, ass that is magic then they seem to be pleased. Sometimes they will be so pleased they will put a little impromptu show on. I like getting pervee participation.
This is perving rather than flirting but can be done in a toned down form. I really don't know that this is flirting or not. Best I can do anyway.
I just stick my hand down his pants and whisper fuck me in his ear before giving the finger to his girlfriend as I lead him away.
Seriously though. First, Take an interest in something about him, guys aren't great at conversation but love attention. Second make sure he knows you're single. Third, don't be a bitch or cold. Guys want you moaning in bed not during the conversation.
Be like a bell, the dinner bell not an alarm bell.People told me I give off an innocent vibe, maybe it's because of the way I look at people, guys in this case.
Puppy dog eyes or simply just using eye contact is the only flirting I can do. Maybe if being helpful and open counts, then that too.
I can't flirt for shite.
Never really needed to actively flirt.
I'd just be a good friend and analyse what bothers her the most. Then get her to feel very relaxed and open while talking to her. Letting her know I don't judge and I'm there to support her as a good friend.
Once she lowers her walls, I'll just give her lots of attention. It's not the fastest technique, but it always worked in my youth.Nowadays I don't need to, cuz I'm married.
I don't have to worry much about flirting anymore, but when I want to really let him know how special he is to me I give him a little butt pinch and a kiss on the cheek 🥰😘
I'll just walk up to her and say " hi gorgeous can you spell me for me. She'll say M. E. I'll say you forgot the d. She'll say there's no d in me. I'll say you want mine in you? " it always makes them smile, laugh and I get her number. The last person I used that line on was my wife 35 years ago.
I like to smile. Sometimes I run my hand through my hair. Or talk to someone. Maybe wink.
The tactics I use really depends and sometimes I do it and not realize it and then I get embarrassed.
I get her laughing. How I do that depends on the girl, but I just talk to her and before long I can figure out something that will at least put a smile on her face if not a full belly laugh.
Smile. Always say something to spark a laugh. You know, the ones where she turns away and covers her mouth? Girls love to FEEL good. So make them feel good, and its in the bag.
I usually give a sweet smile and stare for a short while without trying to make it obvious lol.
Wearing my bombshell bra and a tight fitting top lol
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being myself has ALWAYS worked great for me... never had a need to be a flirtGentle teasing (but not about something she might be insecure about) and touching her lightly on her arm while smiling.
bright eyes and a smile usually get attention
Getting emotional. It's a heavy cost compared to flirting but works very well.
Witty banter and friendly teasing. It's a big family thing.
I never flirt. Never. Hence no flirting techniques from my side.
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