That is just not true, being "not a simp" doesn't automatically mean you are an ass, there is a whole range in between.
I assume you behave like a simp with girls you like and you get no success out of that. The trick is that if you start respecting yourself you will be more attractive as a consequence.
It means: never give more when you receive less. If you give an input and the girl doesn't reciprocate with an equal input, do not give more inputs. Do not give any more compliments, gifts, attention, if you aren't receiving compliments, gifts and appreciation in return. If you do that, that is just the way to progressively lower your price (she has to do nothing at all to keep receiving dedication from you), and that directly means lowering your value as well. That is why being a simp is not attractive: you just have to not lower your price and wait for reciprocation before putting any more effort in any next step. Require to build it together. If there isn't this effort from her side, move onto another girl, and so on.
Waiting for women's move and respecting yourself in this way doesn't really mean to be an "ass", at all, and it respects women more, too.
Further, being "nice" because you have an agenda behind (wanting to get the girl you like) will be perceived as a debt you put on them, it's clear you are creating an expectation, but that is not consensual because they didn't give you any input, that makes it annoying. While if you are a nice person in general (helping anyone, adults, men, elders, animals etc), then that doesn't hold an agenda behind and that is perceived as good, regardless.
Lastly, women may play it dumb like if they are unaware of anything but in fact they overthink and observe every move you will do. So you don't really need to be very explicit and to overdo with them, to give a signal of interest. They suspect it already from the beginning anyway, regardless. So let them always respond to the inputs. If you don't, they will read it like:"Oh he is at it again, why doesn't he understand I'm not interested?", then proceed to reply with hearts and smiles to mask their thoughts, because they are generally deeply bad at conflicts and want to avoid them at any cost.
People say that stuff and don’t know what they’re talking about. Obviously you can be nice to someone without just trying to get sexual attention.
I have not run into that issue. It is likely that they do not want your attention despite your willingness to part with your attention.
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It's okay to be nice to women and love them and appreciate them.
I think guys get called "Simps" when they try to PURSUE women who aren't interested in them. They don't have enough self respect or awareness to leave her alone and move on. They just continue trying and trying to the point where it's sad.
Of course you can be nice to a girl. There's a difference between being nice, and bending over backwards to impress a girl who has no interest in you and you know it.
Maybe they and others you don't know been with her on the down low low.
it's a word invented by the retards. dont give no fucks about it my king 😘
That seems fine to me.
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