Whenever you see a cute or hot guy in public, what do you do? Is a smile flirting? How do girls flirt?

[Anonymous]

What do girls usually do? Because whenever I’m at the gym, I get smile from hot blonde women as I’m lifting weights. Not sure if they are flirting or just being friendly. How can you tell?

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[Guy13]

My brain 🧠 goes, “Competition” and then start sizing up the guy talking with my crush.

[Asker]

Same bro

[Guy13]

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[UmbrusNightshade]

I used to struggle majorly with this. I’m by no means an expert but having read up on it from dating experts and psychologists here are some things to look for. The more she does, the more likely she is into you:


Eye Contact. We men are usually pretty dense when it comes to picking up on a woman flirting and a lot of women know that. So if you make eye contact with a woman you find attractive make sure you don’t avert your gaze right away. It may feel uncomfortable but look her in the eye for just a split second or two longer than you would someone who was a friend or relative. That will cue her into what your thinking. If she happens to break eye contact first but does so by looking down that is a possible indicator she finds you attractive. Don’t stare at her but see if you catch her eye again, if so repeat the process. If she does it a third time, definitely approach her because at that point she is telling you she wants to talk. If she adds a smile to either the second or third time that is very good sign.


Open Body Language. Let’s say you make eye contact like above and you notice her body is kinda pointed away from you. You break eye contact and fidget for a minute and you again make contact. This time she’s smiling and she’s turned her body more towards you AND is sitting in a more, open and relax manner. Those are excellent signs she is interested in you and you should approach. Other body language cues are: messing with her hair in a way that reveals her neck/throat (as pheromones come from that area), tilting her head just slightly, smiling and having wide open eyes, sitting or standing in a manner where here wrists are exposed (this is a sign of submission), leaning forward when talking to you, light touches on your arm or hand that kinda linger for just a second, sitting or standing in s manner that emphasize her chest, hips, thighs and/or butt (showing off feminine attributes) or exaggerated hip sway if she walks away and knows you are looking (a very feminine attribute that biological males can’t replicate; her hips are wider than ours and increased estrogen has padded that area with extra fat cells).


Laughing at your jokes, especially if you don’t think they are THAT funny.


She suddenly takes a lot of interest in things you like.


Hope this helps.