Would you be more attracted to an uglier woman if she showed signs of sexual attraction towards you, like heavy breathing, blushing, admiration, etc?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Most men's minimum beauty standard is a lot lower than most women believe - a woman doesn't have to be a supermodel for men to find her physically attractive. I'd say that, by far, the #1 thing that works against women is being overweight - and I'm not talking about an extra 10 or 20 pounds, I'm talking about an extra 50-100+ pounds. So, if a woman is able to keep the extra weight off, the vast majority will be physically attractive enough for most men. Yes, there will be men with higher standards (the more attractive the man overall, the higher his standards for women will likely be), and there will be guys who only like specific types, but in general, it's a lot less difficult than women believe to meet our physical attraction standards.

What so many women fail to realize is that it is OTHER THINGS that cause most men to disqualify a woman as a potential relationship partner - not her looks. The most common reasons why men immediately (and permanently) downgrade women they meet from "potential relationship partner" to "for recreational use only" (or even to "no interest at all" are:

promiscuity
being masculine rather than feminine
being loud
being argumentative
being offended by everything
being a feminist/SJW
being career-oriented instead of being family-oriented

None of these are about looks - they're about personality and attitude. I've met quite few women who were NOT physically beautiful (and often get treated poorly by other women), but who are feminine and sweet and family-oriented, and they get attention and relationship interest from men.

With all of that background, I will say this: if you're a woman, and you know your looks are only average, or even below average, do NOT lead with your sexuality - lead with your FEMININITY and see if you get positive responses and interest from the man. Only AFTER you see strong signs of interest should you make your sexual interest known to him. Otherwise, your results will likely be poor.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

Yes I think I could be attracted to an uglier woman but not in the combination with signs of sexual attraction because I´m not a sexual active and interested person. If she tried flirting with other signs like showing gratitude being interested in my day and having a conversation with me her chances are higher.

caring__1 · Answer

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What one person may label as ugly might be attractive to another. If outsiders are viewing this situation, they'll probably project their own preferences on the individuals. If the involved individuals are viewing themselves, the results may differ.

I can follow someone around for an entire day, snapping photos of that person. I could show those photos to someone who doesn't know that person, and they may not believe the photos are of the same person. If you feel smart, you'll look smart. If you feel sexy, you'll look sexy. If you feel loved, you'll look gorgeous.

Since I don't find the plastic Barbie Dolls promoted by society attractive in my eyes, I could be seen by others to choose less than attractive women. I will always view a Plain Jane who enjoys being with me as attractive. If I find someone repulsive, based on my preferences, I won't be attracted to her if she shows signs of sexual attraction toward me... I would probably just feel more repulsed by her inability to be observant and considerate of my feelings and assume I should be attracted to her just because she is attracted to me. There are too many people who assume anyone they're attracted to will always find them attractive, too. If you want your preferences to be respected, show respect to the preferences of others. Never criticize others just because their preference isn't you.

coachTanthony · Answer

It might be flattering but in the end you would be settling and in the long run will have contempt for this person. So no.

Guy13 · Answer

No... I would probably thing a seizure was coming or that she needed to go to gym and get more in shape...

Lliam · Answer

Not if she was ugly, because there is no way I would consider her for more than a one time nut, and I wouldn't want to lead her on.

I've been in similar situations several times. But even when I was single, I refrained using those girls for cum dumps.

I could certainly be friends with them if they had good personalities and we got along. A person's looks have nothing to do with how fun the are to be around.

If they actually WERE cum dumps, I wouldn't want to touch them. There were a few girls like that in high school and college, and I gave their advances the cold shoulder.

Now that I think about it, there were a few times when I let women I wasn't attracted to blow me. Most of those times were super erotic. But I didn't consider it to be leading them on or taking advantage of them. I was actually fulfilling their desires and I expressed my gratitude. They were really happy and I didn't have to profess any romantic feelings.

I want to add that ugly is subjective. Some people are less conventionally attractive than others. There are certainly people whom I consider to be ugly. At the same time, I'm sure there are guys who don't share my vision of the ideal woman. Everyone has preferences.

StormChaser838 · Answer

sometimes a little ugly can be very attractive, But how ugly are u talking about, like I am scared to turn out the lights with her alone? that ugly? I don't know but I was always have been scared of such situations, since I would feel sorry for her and try an accommodate her. I would say to myself what the heck, it will mean so much for her, and its just a quickie for me. but I am not exactly a kind of, "fuck the face ram the base", kind of guy. I will not be able to do her if she cannot turn me on. So it would be a very tense situation for me. In the past I have luckily given her the slip or was saved by a crowd coming, but such situations give me a lot a fear and tension.

Stoner710 · Answer

Possible my issue is weight, call me superficial, fatfoblic whatever the fuck. I like skinny women, Of course I would love to get a girl like the girls you find on ticktock but give me an average looking girl with mind shoulder leath hair with a slim waste then I’m good. by the way way you will be surprised on how an average looking girl can make her self look amazing if she wants.

Most women I’m attached to are either caked up with Hollywood make up (which why not these women are attractive on purpose). But when you find that girl to be cheesy here “ you don’t know you beautiful” One Direction is the girl who guys want to spend there lives with,

girls have there Prince, Charming, or King Arthur or Sir Lancelot, women example of mr perfect. Men like the princess and want to be those women, but how do we do that in modern society that the question of the hour

DizzyDesii · Answer

Lmao why is she heavy breathing towards him if they’re not having sex 🤣 i immediately thought of that heaving breathing ass boy from hey arnold

NewsReader · Answer

Ugly? No. But something interesting did happen during my school and college years. I'm white but noticed that I received more attention and better treatment by black girls than white. And that made me feel more attracted to them. Most of them were around average with a few cute ones. I don't think I would have looked at them this way if it were not for the positive attention I received from them. But if they were ugly then I would turned away no matter what.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

No, I would not want to lead her on in any way, as that would hurt her more down the road, especially, if I was to have sex with her. Sex to me, says I have a connection with that person, and it is not something you do for the sake of getting off.

Weapon77 · Answer

It really depends on wjat you mean by ugly. Girls and women I find ugly have hit on me and shown those signs for most of my life, and it does nothing for me. Sometimes it's even annoying, and sometimes they get so pushy and even rude that's it's creepy and gross.

Haha456 · Answer

Just because a guy wants to sleep with a horny ugly woman, it doesn't mean he will want to spend the rest of his life with her. You need to realize that vast majority of guys are desperate and would sleep with absolutely anyone regardless if she is fat or ugly. But it doesn't mean he is interested in you

ManOnFire · Answer

Something of that nature has already happened to me, and I wasn't impressed. But I might be more offended by it if a "beautiful" woman did the same thing because it would probably come across as her trying to either test me, or think I'm stupid enough to be flattered by that because she thinks she's pretty and that I should appreciate her attention.

Hassan_8 · Answer

No I wouldn’t, but beauty is relative. may be she’s ugly in my eyes but in other person’s eye she’s beautiful.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I would rather be with a "uglier" women with a great personality vs someone that is pretty with a horrible personality. beauty fades over time.

Anonymous · Answer

My reaction would be just like any woman's reaction to an ugly man would be. I would find it creepy. A kind of harrassment, you can say. Just reverse the roles and you get what I mean.

NathanDavis · Answer

if I am not attracted to someone for who they really are... then, no matter how much they are attracted to me... either I am interested or not

LiamJHayden · Answer

I am not certain how to answer as I do not know what "ugly" means. I have seen photos posted on here that most guys drool over that I think are average at best, and others that most guys dismiss whom I find interesting.

smølf · Answer

Not really, attraction is not related to heavy breathing or blushing. Admiration in the form of flattery, however, does work, if it's enough or not, is not possible to say.

Mansearching · Answer

Depends on what you call ugly.  Its like this, "one man's trash is another man's treasure "  Its all in the person's eyes to what is ugly.

RavVid · Answer

NOPE. There was a pub owning girl who was clearly partial to me. Not even owning a pub was enough.

Adam1978 · Answer

No, if I am not attracted that behavior is unwanted.

SnowedIn · Answer

Nope. None of that increases or decreases my attraction.

Zayed_ · Answer

I don’t know, I honestly Don’t know how I would feel. I never knew someone who got attracted to me. I would probably think about it.

hypojoe · Answer

Thats kind of harsh but fuck it im shallow so answer is no

samuluaa · Answer

No. I also don’t like heavy breathing and blushing as well.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

She doesn't have to be ugly for you to like her when you like a girl you think she's the most beautiful one in the world so if she shows signs of Attraction and passion for you that's the best part

Orion76 · Answer

I would prefer an attractive woman with the same symptoms 😁

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Considering that those can be construed as something else, I'd ask her if she needs medical attention.

Massageman · Answer

Uglier? Kinda harsh there, no? How about more plain-faced or just less pretty.

loveslongnails · Answer

Beauty is the eyes of the BEER holder! LOL how ugly is she? LOL

UncleBilll · Answer

She would have to have a great set of titties, a nice ass, and is tight

Strong_Warrior · Answer

Men don't look at appearance. We all look communications, respect and submissive traits in women. Women are the one who look appearance.

Anonymous · Answer

I've fucked more ugly women than I care to admit simply based on the fact that I could

Iron_Man · Answer

That has nothing to do with it breathing heavy

Yumix · Answer

If I don't find her physically attractive, then get feelings towards me won't change anything

AimeeKyle · Answer

I would have to be attracted to her in some way.

Avicenna · Answer

How ugly is she?

Anonymous · Answer

Confidence is always attractive. A homlier woman can actually come off as more attractive if she owns who she is and struts what God gave her.

Shy_Steve · Answer

No, Just like you Girls wouldn't if a Guy was doing that.

Guardian45 · Answer

Attraction is a complicated puzzle with lots of facets. Maybe

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Probably not!

4ngelic · Answer

"heavy breathing" lol

fonduegirl · Answer

A pussy is a pussy

MeiAndYou · Answer

You are so pretty and not ugly!

Angelo75 · Answer

I think I would.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It's happened a time or three before.

Anonymous · Answer

Who is to say who is ugly or not?

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

Honestly dont know

boobliker · Answer

may be. uglie is in ones mind yes?

Mayo503 · Answer

What do you call ugly…?

Sparkie460 · Answer

It all depends on her personality.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

No, I'd probably be terrified and run away.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Ew, no thanks.

msc545 · Answer

No. Less attracted.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

No, i would not be more attracted to her.

CubaPirate · Answer

Maybe just Maybe

Allday4 · Answer

No pride night? That’s what we call it

Anonymous · Answer

Are you asking because you're ugly? 🤣

In_Trance · Answer

Lol no

krin_m · Answer

May be!

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