Why would a guy invite a girl to watch a movie and makes a full setup on the couch with pillows and there is another pillow between both of them?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

That is painful, I’m sorry. He lost interest. Whatever the reason is, only he can say that. what’s important is this: I’m sure you want closure but you don’t need it. He showed you his true nature which is someone without integrity (he doesn’t mean what he says) and a coward (ran away instead of being honest with you) is this the type of person you want to invest in long term? I know you cannot turn your feelings off but I hope that would help you process and realize that you deserve someone who reciprocates your feelings and intentions. Hopefully that can give you the closure

[Asker]

Lol that’s a bit too much. He says nothing more than “let’s watch a movie together” … oh and accepting a cheep invite for a trip on another continent

[Opinion Owner]

Haha sorry I responded to the wrong question, as far as sticking a pillow between you, I don’t know but my guess would be either Im he’s being silly, trying to abstain or maybe doesn’t want you to get the wrong impression.

[MrOracle]

Because he wants her to be comfortable and doesn't want to presume too much. This gives HER the option to remove the pillow in between and move in for some cuddling, OR keep it there if she isn't comfortable getting close so soon.

[Asker]

Interesting thought

[D_Bone_Steak]

Because he's totally trying to fuck but the pillow in between makes it look like he is totally not just trying to fuck. I just had to check your age... you should know this stuff already. You're not even under 16.

[Asker]

I do but still.. needed to check with guys. Thanks for the answer

[Avicenna]

Because it's more comfortable. It can always be removed.

[AMS700CX4u2]

He is offering you a safety zone as a common cays in place. However, should you remove the pillow you are telling him you want to get close

[AMS700CX4u2]

He is offering you a safety zone as a common courtesy. Should you leave the pillow in place, you are telling him that you don't want the situation to escalate from social to sexual. However should you remove the pillow you are signaling him that it is OK to get close.

[Asker]

Most girls I know wouldn’t remove the pillow. Too risky to get rejected.

[spartan55]

@asker if you think you would get rejected me in that scenario you are out of your mind.

[Asker]

@spartan55 not for the night but that’s not my style. I find one night stand disgusting

[spartan55]

Who said anything about one night stands?

[Asker]

@spartan55 that’s what a girl like me fears the most

[spartan55]

'A girl like you' what does that mean?

[blackgaletiger]

Pillows can always be removed if the situation calls for it. Maybe he could be unsure if it would go that way. Its a soft barrier to add comfort

[shades777]

Insecurities is my guess, if I felt at any point I'm getting laid I wouldn't have invited her over, maybe he's different

[spartan55]

Seriously? Is that pillow immovable or something?

[Asker]

Hahahahhaha

[MrCommodore]

Arm rest maybe?

[Iron_Man]

Funny lol you don’t like that huh?

[Asker]

Lol i don’t like that I don’t understand it

[Iron_Man]

Right cold fish

[BarryLiverstone]

Cuz you are not available

[Asker]

Why would he go on a vacation with me then? He doesn’t know and I am not planing to tell him yet that I broke up with my boyfriend.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s a vacay, he needed a break

[Asker]

Hahahahha he can’t be so simple but good guess. You might be right

[In_Trance]

you asked this twice

[Asker]

Will delete it tomorrow, it was a weird signing up process

[In_Trance]

he's gay

[Asker]

There is more to the story. He knows I have a boyfriend and things are bad between us. He also started asking me questions about a trip I was planing to do with a friend of mine and then after a few more questions from his side, I invited him and he immediately agreed. But then it will take him hours to reply to me.

[neboo]

Yessss