In our electrical Walmart there are large no of coworkers so me and the girl cannot get close
She purposely avoids me talks to everyone else and says hi to people beside me but lot of staff have seen her checking for me And think there's something going on
She stares and glances at me all the time. also we looked into each others eyes for over two minutes when both with someone else from far away
When I stare back alone she looks away licks her lips plays with hair
She hooovers close to my area in the hope I will see her talk
When we passed in a office corridor she froze completely got nervous and looked towards the wall and not me I got nervous froze but could feel sexual tension and couldn't say hello and she said hello to next coworker
Is that attraction or tension?
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Yessir, that is indeed her being attracted to you. Before you got to "but lot of staff have seen her checking for me" I would've said maybe she has a personal issue with you for no valid reason. But if she's always checking for you, she's into you.
What a lot of women do not realize about their own selves is that their actions/behaviors give them away so easily. And there are countless women out there who will not speak to the guy in the room they're turned on by - and I say this from experience as well - because psychologically they feel like if they talk to you then everyone else will know what's going on inside her head. Yet women don't realize that by not talking to you and treating you like everyone else, it actually just draws attention to her and makes the guy or other people wonder why she is behaving that way.
I once had a female co-worker do exactly everything with me that you described this girl doing. It is a real thing. These women are so inside their heads about you and think they're not showing their feelings, when in actuality they are bad actors and give themselves away. What a woman does/how she behaves is always more truthful than her words.
In any case, I would be careful with her since she is still your co-worker. Workplace relationships are always really dicey and even temporary, so just tread lightly if you're thinking about making a move.
Great answer thanks it's getting harder cause we're not alone and I feel the sexual tension worse each time
Like I'm getting more nervous and dumb butterfly's and she is too
I agree I don't wanna do anything because of the workplace but meet her outside of it
You can always ask her for her number away from everyone and schedule something outside of work. Always keep your love interests your business only, especially at work, and even if it's someone who is not working there either. Workplace life is full of gossip and co-workers are always so incredibly nosy.
Ya I'm trying I already have a gang of dicks stuck in it from looking up me online sickos
This is the hard part so many noses
And I bet they will fill her with shit
Oh for sure. If they actually went as far as to look you up online, that means they're really jealous of her being into you, and they want to sabotage that. Dudes will definitely do shit like that. Being complete simps.
But again I'm acting responsibly
But I'm trying my best
To behave to workplace
How did it end for you and that girl?
So for me personally, I canβt get into women who canβt be real with me and wear a mask. So nothing ever happened with us.
Ya it's driving me mad now because I can't get to her... and she will prob move on
I want to meet her out not at work
I'm really worried what these assholes at work do aswell
And also she is would be one of the best looking girls around our area so she would get a lot of attention
How long would her crush last cause I might not see her for week or two?
No idea. But I can tell you this: if she changes her mind about you because of what those assholes tell her about you, then you will know she's not a good girl to date. Any woman who can let other people make up her mind about you with ever hearing your side of things, is not a good judge of character nor would she be a good candidate for dating.
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But I'm really into her
I watched her each day coming in and she tried to time bumping into me... so hot
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Lol. I love when chicks do that. Good luck.
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So man I bumped into her twice said hi and she couldn't talk basically her voice went all soft and low was all emotional said I'm good Def a lot diff than she treats anyone else second time said hi and she couldn't talk I taught she was choking ignoring me said hia back after 20 seconds
Lol. She is a funny one. She must really be shy around you. Just make sure you're okay with that and you really want it. Girls like that are hard for me to get into but if it works, give it your shot.
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Shy but I think it's the attraction that's making her act like that
She had to take a deep breath I could hear her breathing when I said hello before she answered back like a baby girl saying I'm good. I was like what's going on here so odd π
Lol. She really is intense about it.
Must be really into me π
You think from that?
Yeah. Women can act really weird when they like a guy. Almost school girl.
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