Your guy sounds sexually inexperienced but he sounds like a sweet guy. But not being able to get a girl off is akin to not being able to get it up. And trying to talk about it and discussing why that is will always back fire on you.
In any case, he is being immature about it by not calling you back and texting you an hour later if that's like him to do so. He probably feels like you are not attracted to him and if that is the case then why are you with him? That's what is going through his head. What you should do is not try talking about it, what you should do is send him a voice mail about why he has been ignoring you which is hurting your feelings, and subtly tell him that last time you couldn't c.u.m was because of some issue you had going on, hormonal imbalance, bloating, gas, cramps, thought your p.ussy smelled or it itched, just make something up. Next time he comes over, guide him but don't tell him, how to pleasure you. Grab his hand and show him where to rub, take his head and move it around the way you want his tongue to go, thrust your f.ucking hips into his face, make noises that will turn him on, finger yourself till you get wet and then make him lick it off and then pretend like your wetness is because of his doing. And be creative and role play, if you want him to dominate you because it gets you off, go buy some handcuffs and heat causing lube and some blind fold and go to town.
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i wouldn't mention anything just contact him like nothing wrong.. just be like, "hey whats, up I think we should hang out tonight" or something don't elude to anything, just talk like yall are a couple and hang out, if it leads to sex it leads to sex...
I know the feeling of being ignored it hurts. I think that you can reach out to him and try again before you call it off. Try to take the focus off of sex first. I think that you should just spend time with him doing other things you both enjoy, to bring you guys closer together. It should not just be all about sex to him and I think that you have to reassure him that by showing him you are interested in him as a person and not what he can do. Take him out or fix him dinner or something like that, just to show him that you appreciate him, and that there is more to yall relationship. Then work up to the sexual aspect of your relationship, where you both should be open to each others feelings and emotions and can discuss everything freely. If you really have feelings for him, give him time. After a while if he's not opening up to you and turning you down, evaluate if you want to be in the relationship with him, because if there's no communication, there's no relationship. Good luck and keep me updated
Might be something he has to work through...guys' egos are fragile, and that's sort of a part of it, making us come and being able to please us. Just contact him, ask if he wants to meet up...see what he says...when you meet up, directly ask what's up, don't hint or be subtle...if anything, you may have to reassure him, you're fine, but remember, he might not be...
Just sk him to hang out with you then ask him if something is wrong. DOn't go into anything before he says what he needs to get out.
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