I have had crushes. I act really obvious around them, not because I want them to know, but because I cannot help it. I've never told any of them that I liked them, and I do not regret keeping that to myself.
@spartan55 If I confessed, then I could only hope to be rejected because I do not want to be in a relationship and do relationship stuff. I have no interest in doing activities like that myself.
If you don't want a relationship then just go buy some cats and move to country. Instead you manipulate guys so you can 'giggle and look at them while they have no clue'... Your entire reply makes no sense at all...
@spartan55 I do not really understand your frustration. I know that the crush I have on the guy is fruitless, so I do not pursue anything. How is this manipulation?
if i'm into someone and he's showing interest by making out with me and he's touching my butt... i'll go ahead and give him a blowjob by doing that i hope he'll know that i more than like him
I simply tell. Sure actions speak louder but it's wasted effort unless they're aware, think of you "that way" and considering it. Not to mention saying it instead of acting out of the ordinary is better to avoid any case of your efforts being unwanted. Some may feel pressured/bothered by the extra attention.
I tell it like it is.. i am straight forward because it takes away any guessing game there is no need for between lines.. it's simple straight to the point with less room for error. It's just easier..
I've told some girl that when I was 13/14 y. o. in high school knowing full well that she probably didn't care and had way better friends than me. I told then on a bus. Felt weird and stupid coming home that day. We talked a bit here and there on the bus and on Snap chat. I also didn't have any close friends at that time. Soon after we stopped talking entirely.
Thinking about it now made me realize the importance of being face to face when saying something important and understanding the person more before saying such thing. Based on that experience, I feel more confident doing something similar if it occurs again. There were some actions I didn't which I won't go into detail but actions should only be done so much. Don't rely on actions as the most important indicator.
dont play around if you find someone attractive you like tell them that... that shows you are serious and confident. Although dont be like "i like you.. i want you.. kinda way... like im too macho (if you are not that macho dont act like one be yourself '''.. be a gentleman about it. If she likes you she will tell you and if she dont you will know that too and can move on
I am too shy like my nerves always get to me mainly bc my whole entire life I've been rejected by the people Im interested in. So I just either write a letter or just never tell them. 😢😢
He tells a good joke and you're both sharing a laugh, right afterwards immediately respond by asking âso when are you going to fuck me?â You will get results
Ask her out, make it a posh restaurant, and have a romantic meal. This act tells half the story. The rest, talk during meal and let her know that I'm interested.
i tried the actions speak louder than words route and I really was getting nowhere. She started to hang out with another guy so one night I psyched myself up and went and told her how much I cared for her.
I got a few slaps but not many i night had 3 slaps and a girl who had slapped me be for want to dance and I said no your slap me not tonight was the reply
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If i like someone and like see future with them... i confess to them i like them... living a life without regrets😂😉
Yes same
directly with confidence and don't care about the answer or response.
when I was younger I'd tell them by hiding, running away so they never saw me. I'd ignore them so bad they didn't think I existed.
I have had crushes. I act really obvious around them, not because I want them to know, but because I cannot help it. I've never told any of them that I liked them, and I do not regret keeping that to myself.
Why would you keep it to yourself? That makes no sense.
LOL Yeah
You don't regret it... interesting.
@spartan55 I kept it to myself because I did/do not want a relationship and that way I could giggle and look at them while they have no clue
@spartan55 If I confessed, then I could only hope to be rejected because I do not want to be in a relationship and do relationship stuff. I have no interest in doing activities like that myself.
If you don't want a relationship then just go buy some cats and move to country. Instead you manipulate guys so you can 'giggle and look at them while they have no clue'... Your entire reply makes no sense at all...
@spartan55 I do not really understand your frustration. I know that the crush I have on the guy is fruitless, so I do not pursue anything. How is this manipulation?
Who said I'm frustrated? Why do you 'know it's fruitless?'
if i'm into someone and he's showing interest by making out with me and he's touching my butt... i'll go ahead and give him a blowjob by doing that i hope he'll know that i more than like him
I simply tell. Sure actions speak louder but it's wasted effort unless they're aware, think of you "that way" and considering it. Not to mention saying it instead of acting out of the ordinary is better to avoid any case of your efforts being unwanted. Some may feel pressured/bothered by the extra attention.
@Hanrej I personally believe saying it is more courageous than resorting to "action speaks louder" method.
I tell it like it is.. i am straight forward because it takes away any guessing game there is no need for between lines.. it's simple straight to the point with less room for error. It's just easier..
You don't need to tell me...
... because I already know you're into me.
Iâve never told somebody that Iâve liked them I just have silent crushes and sometimes they can tell I think.
I probably never will, I can never see myself âshooting my shotâ or approaching somebody ever
I've told some girl that when I was 13/14 y. o. in high school knowing full well that she probably didn't care and had way better friends than me. I told then on a bus. Felt weird and stupid coming home that day. We talked a bit here and there on the bus and on Snap chat. I also didn't have any close friends at that time. Soon after we stopped talking entirely.
Thinking about it now made me realize the importance of being face to face when saying something important and understanding the person more before saying such thing. Based on that experience, I feel more confident doing something similar if it occurs again. There were some actions I didn't which I won't go into detail but actions should only be done so much. Don't rely on actions as the most important indicator.
dont play around if you find someone attractive you like tell them that... that shows you are serious and confident. Although dont be like "i like you.. i want you.. kinda way... like im too macho (if you are not that macho dont act like one be yourself '''.. be a gentleman about it. If she likes you she will tell you and if she dont you will know that too and can move on
I am too shy like my nerves always get to me mainly bc my whole entire life I've been rejected by the people Im interested in. So I just either write a letter or just never tell them. 😢😢
You donât, You just wait until youâre sure they like you.
Thatâs sad
He tells a good joke and you're both sharing a laugh, right afterwards immediately respond by asking âso when are you going to fuck me?â
You will get results
Ask her out, make it a posh restaurant, and have a romantic meal. This act tells half the story. The rest, talk during meal and let her know that I'm interested.
i tried the actions speak louder than words route and I really was getting nowhere. She started to hang out with another guy so one night I psyched myself up and went and told her how much I cared for her.
I will tell or text them I think they bad and if they reciprocate I ask what they looking for and I tell them I'm tryna fuck lol
𤣠hulk smash
All day lol
I don't say too much. You know the saying, âgive them an inch, and they will take a mile.â
If I like someone I ask them out. If they say no, I'm not wasting time on pursuing a no hoper. Lifes too short.
I never thought about this, it never happened. I have only had celebrity and character crushes which too change after every few months or so.
i would ask am i getting laid tonight while dancing
𤣠straight up
I got a few slaps but not many
i night had 3 slaps and a girl who had slapped me be for want to dance and I said no your slap me not tonight was the reply