I need your opinions (*not based on my age hah)?

[imanoverthinker]

im just asking if it’s toxic that my crush (we both know we like each other) is jealous of me when i go to another city cuz he thinkin im meeting there somebody but at the same time he flirtes with all my classmates and when i said that i don’t like that he replied that i need to get used to it because there are his ‘’friends’’? like what’s the point of being jealous if you behave the not right way either?

[Effably]

Kind of but its normal too.

To your crush, their intentions are obvious (to them) and if they have no bad intentions they assume that should be fine.
Of course the same would apply to you. If you have no such intentions it should be fine, but they only control themselves and so it feels riskier.

It is unfair, and as such could be toxic, but it is very normal. Assume you or they hang outwith people at night. You would likely be hesitant about them doing it but know that you yourself will be fine.

So, its about feeling secure and about seeing others viewpoint. Both being skills not always gained yet at 15, or 20.

[Middle_Sch_Whirl_Grl]

If you trust each other then it's no big deal. Think of it like a summer thing that could turn into something more. When u are more serious about going out ig then it makes sense to have more rules?

[SnowedIn]

I wouldn't say toxic but yes wrong and shitty.