Flirting in bed do you do this with your lover or mostly just dirty talk?

[RoseySarah]

Can I get my love to do more dirty talk and less flirting in bed?

Notice more people tend to just dirty talk and forget we love compliments in bed too!

Flirt in bed

Only Dirty talk

Both

[Holsen]

Well if you look at it on a different perspective while flirting , dirty talk is another way of it so it can be put along the course of the flirting to spice it up and make the relationship more enjoyable for both but if you feel like you need something in particular you should express it to your partner!

[RoseySarah]

Hm nope dirty talk and flirting are very different

[Holsen]

Personally I prefer flirting more as dirty talk doesn’t stand right with me but I guess they are indeed different!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Definitely more flirty in the initial moments, and the dirty talk usually happens while we are heating up under the sheets.

[RoseySarah]

After the massages?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

That's accurate 🤣

[sage2021]

Talking dirty talk really turned me off with my last boyfriend because I knew he watched porn all the time. He was dirty enough 🤭😂

[RoseySarah]

Lmao so true there is pron dirty talk and loving talk

[mandyfire98]

I love dirty talk in bed but dirty talk to me also involves compliments just in a dirty way. But both are a must in my opinion.

[RoseySarah]

So love the dirty compliments

[mandyfire98]

Absolutely. I like it all. The compliments, giving direction, all of it as long as it's done in a dirty way.

[AviatorTom]

We do both, flirting when we're lying apart and dirty talk when we're together.

[Becky316]

It usually depends on the mood, I can be flirty or very dirty!

[RoseySarah]

Very true though I'm way more flirty

[Becky316]

That's very cool

[RoseySarah]

Ty Becky your wonderful

[Becky316]

Thanks, so are you

[Jerre]

Not as filthy as me

[RoseySarah]

@Jerre gross 😝🤢

[Jasmin01]

As well flirting, as some talk about the topics of which we're in bed.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If it was me, I would like a little of both. Lol

[Leowolf13]

Dirty talk usual occurs when we’re in the middle of sex or a sexual act, and yes telling the other how much we enjoy each other, love each other, how much we desire one another, and what we’re going to do to each other.

[NathanDavis]

flirty everywhere... lol

[RoseySarah]

Lol even in the shower?

[NathanDavis]

the shower, while watching a game... texting before/after work... lol

[letthefire80]

I used to have sex with this man who was terribly insecure, and I tried not to because he would stop me to ask me what I meant if I dirty talked to him and after him I just stopped it totally.

[Billlewis]

I love it when she says things like that when she's watching me masturbate for her.

[RoseySarah]

Like which one?

[Billlewis]

We'll play kind of a role play game, and I'll beg her, over and over to let me have intercourse with her -- but we both know that I have a better chance of flying to the moon than getting my dick inside her...

[Billlewis]

I'm never allowed to have any penetrative sex whatsoever, but she always has at least two or three lucky guys who are enjoying sex with her regularly -- she just loves teasing me.

[Billlewis]

I'll ask her when she last had sex, and if the lucky guy released his semen inside her when he climaxed, and it's only been a day or two since she had intercourse, I'll just go right through the roof... and it makes me so, so sweet when this keeps happening, day after day. Repeated prick teasing without having sex, when administered over a long period of time, is one of the most powerful, most devastating methods of permanently enslaving a guy for long term service.

[RoseySarah]

Wow really

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely. Nothing compares to the excitement of being in a relationship with a beautiful woman who only lets me service her with my mouth, lips and tongue -- while she dates other guys who are enjoying the privilege of having intercourse with her regularly, often when I'm there at her apartment.

[Billlewis]

I'm sitting quietly in the next room, listening to the lucky guy she's dating when they're having hot, passionate sex, and when that amazing moment finally arrives -- that magical moment when he begins to climax inside her, I am so utterly fulfilled... and I feel like the happiest guy in the world!

[RavVid]

I like salacious better than simple dirty talk.

[RoseySarah]

Like what kind?

[RavVid]

It is like sarcastic, satirical, ironic and sardonic - difficult to distinguish!

With sex I think we have polite, crude/dirty, salacious. The crude/dirty might be fuck me, the polite might be make love to me, the salacious might be I want you inside me.

Tone is a lot to do with it. Men use a hard K with the classics but it sounds different with the female soft C and different again when it is personalized. 'Lets fuck' hard K, 'Lets fuck' soft c and 'Lets fuck me' are quite different in tone and implication.

The biggest distinction I can make is there is more implication with salaciousness. Girls are really good with implication and I love they way they can imply a different - a sexual - meaning with tone and a tinge of irony.

One of the gender differences, is that girls do make fun of themselves and the situation in humor. Guys are far less likely to use this form of humor. A girl might say 'I'm not getting a choice' both as a complaint and with an implied compliment of manliness.

Is that clarifying? I would have equal difficulty distinguishing satire from irony but I know it when I hear it. Similarly there is a difference between female sensuality and sexiness. Sexiness is just wearing a short skirt but sensuality is more ephemeral.

Female salaciousness really does something for me and can get me hard again quicker than i expect. Always impressive if a girl does that for you :)

[Mark987]

We usually flirt and tease each other. I usually have my back against the head board and she has her back on my chest.. and just chill

[RebeccaSJ]

We flirt a lot.

[RoseySarah]

About what thing

[TallGuy8383]

Well, I try to flirt and dirty talk and my wife just wants to watch tv. So live stopped trying. Cause rejection gets old

[TallGuy8383]

*i’ve not live

[Jerre]

Of course the flirting always leads to sex

[RoseySarah]

Sometimes

[clampfan101]

No experience, but I’m no dirty talker.

[strateguy632]

3rd.,

[Nuget]

Both.

[LavLavLuv]

A mix of both