How does one ask out someone these days?

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DJB72 · Accepted Answer

As I understand it, you need a 25 page single-space but double-sided contract detailing precisely what may and may not be permitted during the meeting. Signed and witnessed by two independent witnesses of good standing in the community.

On the date itself a further consent form, completed in triplicate, again signed and witnessed, for every physical motion towards the party of the second part whereby they consent in writing to each progressive movement.

Should the meeting move beyond the "in public" stage and into a situation where the parties are alone together, this should in the first place be documented in writing and witnessed that both parties consent to moving where they cannot be physically observed by other independent witnesses, at which point both parties should turn on their body-cam and record every ensuing interaction for their own protection on them.

In the event that the encounter move into a situation where items of clothing are removed, a tripod-mounted camera - ideally 3 to ensure all angles are covered - should be applied. Images must be stored in an independent cloud based service for the protection of all parties and copies made available on demand by any witnesses the parties deem necessary.

Alternatively, just ask if they want to go for coffee like it's been done for decades and use your common sense.

But these days I'd go with the former so you're not accused of sexual assault...

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I guess if you don't have a mouth use fingers do sign language.

if that doesn't work you can always do smoke signals

you smile when you say hi how are you and if you know the person just ask them out it's not that big of a deal if they turn you down don't get all embarrassed or anything like that people take that the wrong way

you have to look at it as if okay well thank you at least I know now you're not meant for me so don't feel embarrassed or anything like that just ask them out and be honest 100% honest with them.

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

These days seems to be online. Cos then easier to take rejection. But whether in person or online I think if you are talking and vibing then the "wow I really enjoyed meeting you/this conversation. Would you like to meet again? I'd love to get to know you more". Then hopefully if interested some communication about where and when. I think "can I take you to dinner" should maybe be next date. I like the idea that there is no pressure on just wanting to continue to see if there is a connection rather than seeming full on to quickly!

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

"Hi my name is... I saw you and I think you're very cute. Would you like to go out some time and get some coffee or dinner? "  Easy peasy. Just be upfront and genuine.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Hi, would you like to have dinner with me Friday night?"

Avicenna · Answer

Just ask them if they'd like to join you for...

Sevenpointfive · Answer

it's more about having confidence to get that rejection. and to deal with that rejection right when it happens. it's not about defeat. it's about turning that situation into a positive encounter where if you are rejected that you are so alluring that the person want's to introduce you to their friend.

Anonymous · Answer

After we've been talking or flirting for a while, I wait until the next time I laugh at one of her jokes or she laughs at mine, and then I'd say something like "You're so funny. Would you like to get dinner some time?" Or if I think it's a more casual thing I'd say grab a coffee instead. I never ask if she's single. If she tells me she's with someone, I smile and say "of course you are, you're a catch" and that's that, no hard feelings.

Paris13 · Answer

The Guy: "Can I Have Your Number?" A Good Start. xxoo

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It’s simple & all you have to say the following. If Covid Doesn’t Take You Out Can I?

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I usually just say "hey you want to go grab some coffee/a drink/lunch?"

JacobJordan · Answer

About the same as all of history. "Hey I saw you and think you are really cute you want to go to dinner with me?"

Phoenix98 · Answer

By asking them out your name, you think they're cute or whatever and ask if they want to get some dinner or coffee or something.

GallopAcrossEurope · Answer

Do what my girlfriend did, be upfront: "Hey, I like you. Want to have dinner together?" As they say, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

Likes2drive · Answer

Well in real life you should make sure they’re single first and then you tell them your name and ask their name and then you would ask for their number or ask if they want to go out for coffee sometime or dinner

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

How? Sadly, by texting/messaging.  And, even on text, they still can't get that right.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You ask, “do you want to go out somewhere?” Seems pretty simple to me.

molonski2 · Answer

" Well , what are your plans for this week? "

Massageman · Answer

Same as it was for me 50+ years ago. "Would you like to go out for _____. _______ _______. (fill in blank - lunch- coffee- dinner- movie )"

Anonymous · Answer

"Would you like to go out sometime?"

strateguy632 · Answer

hi i am __ when do you have time to take a walk in the park together

Texaskid1 · Answer

I do so via an attorney that I have on retainer.

Billlewis · Answer

I always make sure there's no one else around when I ask her for her phone number.

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

Extend your eye contact and even throw a smile in there. Or you could try out the tried and true method our ancestors did and drop a handkerchief next to your target.

Keith469 · Answer

Wanna see a movie/grab a drink/have lunch/coffee/hit the beach/go hiking/go to the museum...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You're a girl. You don't have to ask a guy out. Just tell him that you like him. Then if he likes you too, he can do the asking.

BoobMan · Answer

I presume the same way they've done so for the past 100 years or so.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Do it IRL , look them in the eye and pick something they would be comfortable doing

Goodboy11 · Answer

If you find best opinion tell me. I’ll use 😄

nawtee_me · Answer

Would you like to grab a bite to eat or just spend some time together and get to know one another better?

coachTanthony · Answer

sup? U want 2 hang?

JHAYES317 · Answer

You don’t. You get a ton of cosmetic surgery, and then wait for women to ask you out.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Fuck I dunno.. Walk up to and introduce yourself?

Anonymous · Answer

SAAAAAY, BITCH! Those are great titties!! Can I fuck you?

krin_m · Answer

Just ask if they would like to go out with you!

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just walk up and introduce yourself start a conversation then ask

Adamzinho · Answer

Hi , i would be impressed if you accepted my intation for a dinner tonight

Anonymous · Answer

I say hi and introduce myself, and its important to have something to talk about.

Anonymous · Answer

When they ask me something outside, does that count?

Simslover92 · Answer

Like the Nike commercial always says Just Do It!

MemeSupreme · Answer

bully them into submission

Roudyrebel8 · Answer

Just do it don't overthink it

RedInnocent68 · Answer

A time and place usually help.

litty736 · Answer

By being direct and honest

In_Trance · Answer

Straight up, face to face

VabAmy · Answer

I wish I knew :-/

FenixG45 · Answer

Carefully

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Online.

Lieutenant00 · Answer

No idea

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