As I understand it, you need a 25 page single-space but double-sided contract detailing precisely what may and may not be permitted during the meeting. Signed and witnessed by two independent witnesses of good standing in the community.
On the date itself a further consent form, completed in triplicate, again signed and witnessed, for every physical motion towards the party of the second part whereby they consent in writing to each progressive movement.
Should the meeting move beyond the "in public" stage and into a situation where the parties are alone together, this should in the first place be documented in writing and witnessed that both parties consent to moving where they cannot be physically observed by other independent witnesses, at which point both parties should turn on their body-cam and record every ensuing interaction for their own protection on them.
In the event that the encounter move into a situation where items of clothing are removed, a tripod-mounted camera - ideally 3 to ensure all angles are covered - should be applied. Images must be stored in an independent cloud based service for the protection of all parties and copies made available on demand by any witnesses the parties deem necessary.
Alternatively, just ask if they want to go for coffee like it's been done for decades and use your common sense.
But these days I'd go with the former so you're not accused of sexual assault...
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I guess if you don't have a mouth use fingers do sign language.
if that doesn't work you can always do smoke signals
you smile when you say hi how are you and if you know the person just ask them out it's not that big of a deal if they turn you down don't get all embarrassed or anything like that people take that the wrong way
you have to look at it as if okay well thank you at least I know now you're not meant for me so don't feel embarrassed or anything like that just ask them out and be honest 100% honest with them.
These days seems to be online. Cos then easier to take rejection. But whether in person or online I think if you are talking and vibing then the "wow I really enjoyed meeting you/this conversation. Would you like to meet again? I'd love to get to know you more". Then hopefully if interested some communication about where and when. I think "can I take you to dinner" should maybe be next date. I like the idea that there is no pressure on just wanting to continue to see if there is a connection rather than seeming full on to quickly!
"Hi my name is... I saw you and I think you're very cute. Would you like to go out some time and get some coffee or dinner? "
Easy peasy. Just be upfront and genuine.
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"Hi, would you like to have dinner with me Friday night?"
Just ask them if they'd like to join you for...
it's more about having confidence to get that rejection. and to deal with that rejection right when it happens. it's not about defeat. it's about turning that situation into a positive encounter where if you are rejected that you are so alluring that the person want's to introduce you to their friend.
After we've been talking or flirting for a while, I wait until the next time I laugh at one of her jokes or she laughs at mine, and then I'd say something like "You're so funny. Would you like to get dinner some time?" Or if I think it's a more casual thing I'd say grab a coffee instead. I never ask if she's single. If she tells me she's with someone, I smile and say "of course you are, you're a catch" and that's that, no hard feelings.
It’s simple & all you have to say the following. If Covid Doesn’t Take You Out Can I?
About the same as all of history. "Hey I saw you and think you are really cute you want to go to dinner with me?"
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Do what my girlfriend did, be upfront: "Hey, I like you. Want to have dinner together?"
As they say, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
Well in real life you should make sure they’re single first and then you tell them your name and ask their name and then you would ask for their number or ask if they want to go out for coffee sometime or dinner
I usually just say "hey you want to go grab some coffee/a drink/lunch?"
By asking them out your name, you think they're cute or whatever and ask if they want to get some dinner or coffee or something.
How? Sadly, by texting/messaging.
And, even on text, they still can't get that right.
" Well , what are your plans for this week? "
Same as it was for me 50+ years ago. "Would you like to go out for _____. _______ _______. (fill in blank - lunch- coffee- dinner- movie )"
hi i am __ when do you have time to take a walk in the park together
I always make sure there's no one else around when I ask her for her phone number.
Extend your eye contact and even throw a smile in there. Or you could try out the tried and true method our ancestors did and drop a handkerchief next to your target.
You ask, “do you want to go out somewhere?”
Seems pretty simple to me.
"Would you like to go out sometime?"
I do so via an attorney that I have on retainer.
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