Will giving him the cold shoulder make him want me More or Not?

[Anonymous]

Guys Please advice,I'm in love with this Guy we once had a thing we even slept together once,He works out a lot as well,and we call and Text each other regularly,Until we had an Argument 2 weeks ago and ever since I Haven't been talking to him whenever he replies on my statuses on Facebook I wouldn't reply,but its killing me inside because I Love him so much and I also dnt know if he Loves me because he has never told me,Is it OK that I'm giving him the cold shoulder because I'm hoping he would run after me and want me more...or am I just pushing him away? Please advice I'm so confused in this situation Thanks

[cavmanier]

Honestly your pushing him away. Although your probably dating an immature guy in general (in his 20s) guys tend to play a lot less games than women. We are direct. He may know you are playing a game, because he knows women do this, and so he's probably not totally out yet. We know that a girl will tell us that its over if she wants to end it but I really hate when women play games like this. No we won't want you more by you doing this. We don't want you to be clingy or too easy but don't totally cut us off. We want to feel desired too. The next girl I date I will not put up with this kind of games, unfortunately my current girlfriend does this too. You can take a few days off maybe if your mad but you gotta be real with him and communicate.

[Asker]

Thanks for your advice but his not immature as he is 25 years,maybe I'm just been the immature one because he tries making jokes and I would just ignore him...Lol now I dnt know how to just start talking to him as I was the one that just started ignoring him #Sigh#

[cavmanier]

Depends on what your mad about but if it isn't that big of a deal you guys should just learn to talk about things in the future. Yeah I know women don't like to be the one that reconciles after a fight, no one really does. You don't have to go running back to him but maybe the next time he says something you can act civil and give him a chance.