Female friend randomly texts you asking if you're looking for a girlfriend. She didn't say, "want to go out?" But, do you still guess she likes you?

[Bethany22]

Question clarifying my yesterday's question.

A girl randomly texts you in the middle of the day asking if you're looking for a girlfriend. Is it obvious she's asking for herself, or just curious?

It's not like she said directly, "want to go out with me?", but still, would you assume she asks that because she likes you? The two of you rarely text or hang out.

I assume she's asking cause she likes me/is interested in me

I assume I gave the impression that I was interested in her, and she's seeking to clarify things

Both

[edmwarrior]

It’s an honest question. There are two types of guys, the ones who think every girl likes him and the one who wouldn’t know you like him even if you stripped in front of him.


I’m the latter. I wouldn’t have assumed you like me, especially with the way it’s worded.

[edmwarrior]

A woman calls me the sexiest man alive and asked if I was single. I honestly thought she was just joking with me but now that I think about it…

[RavVid]

There is a possibility she is interested in setting you up with a girl friend but I think that would be clarified immediately with something like 'I know this beautiful girl who would be perfect for you'.

I would assume she was interested in me being her boyfriend

[Crimsyjo]

Erm.. context is important. If I was a guy and a female friend I chat to randomly saus 'are you looking for a girlfriend ' I might presume she is just asking a general question. Or could be asking for a friend of hers and not necessarily for herself. So no. I don't think I'd jump to thinking she is asking to be my girlfriend.

However if we were talking about relationships and feeling lonely/sad or had a good connection and then she said 'do you want a girlfriend ' I think that could come across differently...

But I'm not a guy. So my logic may be different?

[bedroomeyes]

My first thought was that she was looking to set you up with someone else. I wouldn't personally ask a guy I was interested in if he was looking for a girlfriend using those specific words in that specific order.

[hahahmm]

I'd think she was asking for a friend 100%. The only kind of woman I ever knew who would be that forward for herself was just fishing for compliments, drunk or a hooker.

[Bethany22]

But as @RavVid just pointed out, if that were the case, then she probably would feel safe enough elaborating and clarifying without you even having to ask, right?

[hahahmm]

@Bethany22 Most women -- as you should now -- often do things based on emotions of the moment. She could feel one thing now and something else 5 minutes from now. Who knows. Guys tend to have a plan and stick to it. Sometimes stick to it too long.

[sage2021]

Do you mean likes you likes you in a sexual kind of way?

Or does she think you'd be a good friend?

[Bethany22]

In sexual/romantic way

[sage2021]

Now see, that's sick to me. I am 100% straight and if some chick texted me or hit on me I wouldn't be nice about it.
They shouldn't just randomly send a person a text asking if she wants to get a sexual partner.
That's pretty lazy and casual. She should have asked her in person at least.
And also asked around to see if the chick she was asking is straight.
She sounds like she has a lot of nerve and very entitled.

[Bethany22]

Question was mainly intended for guys, but I guess you answer it well if it was intended for girls

[OfMiceandMen]

I would presume she is asking because she is interested and saying it's her friend is just a smokescreen.

[NathanDavis]

I would just ask her what's in her mind...

no need to be guessing just talk to her ffs... lol

[DaBiggestBird]

Of course being the intellectually advanced deity I am that would be one of the first thoughts to appear but I’d probably toss it in the back of my head because….. nevermind

[MrGSpotHer]

Neither I don't assume anything where women are concerned anything can mean something then apparently mean something completely different by the end of the statement that's not actually in reality and it has to be accepted this way most of the time

[FunkyMonkee]

I guess MY first thought is, "Hmmm, is she trying to hook me up with someone she knows?".

[SotiCoto]

Her account was hacked / phone was stolen. That is the only explanation that makes sense.

[Lokiion]

Depends on the context before as @Crimsyjo has already said

[shortster]

I assume that she has someone in mind to set me up for a date.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I would assume she's being nosy and getting in my business.

[spartan55]

I wouldn't assume that at all.

[Daniela1982]

She sounds desperate to me.

[noohair]

I never assume. An ass of U & me.

[Jerre]

I think she likes me

[dsrice071966]

Yes, I would say there is some interest.