What should I do next?

[Anonymous]

So in the evening I go for running and I like a girl's so much she run too, i watch her every day and it's been 8 days that she look at me and I look at her. Today I approach her and ask random question a bit then I say good bye to her. So what should I ask next day

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I would suggest, bro:

First off, nice work breaking the ice and saying hi! Approaching a girl you like takes guts.

For next time, I'd keep it casual and get to know her better. Try asking some open-ended questions so she has to give more than a one-word answer.

Maybe say hey, then ask how long she's been running or if she does any other sports. Or comment on the weather to lead into small talk.

Make sure to smile and keep an relaxed posture so she feels comfortable. Listen to what she says too - girls like a guy who pays attention.

After a few minutes of chatting, you could invite her to run together if the vibe seems good. "Wanna do a few laps and keep each other company?"

If she says yes, perfect - now you got an in to build rapport. But no pressure if she says no either. Just say cool, see you around then!

Keep it light and friendly bro. The more you chat, the closer you'll get to asking for her number or social media. You got this!

[Asker]

Thanks should tell her on the third day that i approach her because I like you so my...

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, I don't know if I'd confess your feelings so soon. You guys have only talked a couple times while running into each other. Nothing wrong with telling a girl you think she's cool, but saying you like her already might come on too strong.

I'd focus more on getting to know her better first before putting her on the spot like that. Ask more casual questions, find some common interests, make her laugh. Try inviting her to go for coffee after your run together sometime instead. Gives you a chance to chat one-on-one without the pressure of a "date."

If she says yes, that's a good sign! Take it slow. A couple more casual meetups to connect and you'll have a better idea if she's into you too. Then maybe you can tell her you're enjoying getting to know her. But save confessing actual feelings til you're sure she's feeling it as well. Don't wanna scare her off, you know? Play it cool for now man, you got this!

[Asker]

Thanks brother

[Asker]

While she run should I run a long with her or should I ask her for it

[Oliverlogan263]

When you're running and you see her, I'd say go ahead and run alongside her for a bit without necessarily asking right away. As you're running together, shoot her a smile and say something casual like "Hey, enjoying your run so far?" Just to acknowledge her in a friendly way.

Then you can make some small talk as you both jog. Ask how her week is going, comment on the weather, whatever. The goal is just to chat comfortably while you run together so she gets used to your presence. No need to officially ask to run with her yet.

After 10-15 minutes of chatting as you run side by side, you could THEN say something like "It's more fun running with company. Mind if I tag along for the rest of your route?" That way it feels more natural rather than having to directly ask from the start.

By now she'll hopefully be smiling and laughing with you, so I bet she'll say yes! Keep the conversation and jokes going. Towards the end, when you're both wrapping up your run, that's when you can casually ask for her number "to run together again sometime." I think starting by just running together unofficially first will help her warm up to the idea. Give it a shot, dude!

[Zacksparrow]

just go to her and tell her about how you feel when you see her

[Asker]

Thanks mate

[Sunnysunny123]

Maybe ask if she is single, if she is tell her that you think she is beautiful and that you would like to go on a date easy and respectful approach

[Asker]

Is a good to approch like this way like direct,

[Sunnysunny123]

To be honest i am a direct person and would like for other people to be direct with me rather than go around it. The first and most important thing you have to know if she is single and if she is willing to go out with you then the flirting game can begin, because if you just flirt and then she tells you she is not single or interested it's wasting time

[Sunnysunny123]

You will not be rude or sound like a maniac, if a guy liked me i would prefer him making the move and being forward.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Asker]

I think I have to quit mow

[Anonymous]

Why u like her so much

[Asker]

Because she is sweet by face and her natuet

[Opinion Owner]

How old are u both

[Asker]

She is 21 and I am 30

[Opinion Owner]

Lol that’s a huge age gap

[Sunnysunny123]

I wouldn't say it's a huge gap because she is 21, it would be weird if she is 16 and he 25, sometimes people are just comoatible

[Asker]

@Sunnysunny123 should I direct approach her