Ok. So I need your advice guys. I just started a new sport and I met this guy. He is super confident and a smooth talker. I vibed with his confidence and gave him the same ‘teasing’ energy back. However, I do think he is a bit overconfident but to be honest he is very good in the sports so I thinks his confidence matches that. The thing is, the way he gives me a ‘peptalk’ is with an undermining tone. I am a very confident young lady so his attitude makes me a bit frustrating but I want to reconnect with my feminine energy so I let him do his talk. Last Sunday we played again together in a team. This time, I was playing hard to get and even gave him the cold shoulder. And I believe that he liked it. To summarize the event, we were teasing each other the whole game. Fast forward, I explained that I came in later because of work. He asked where I worked and for how long. He asked whether I knew this guy and I did. So we started talking about him and I mentioned sth which remembered and had a nice short talk/laugh.
Since we won the tournament, we got credits. We had to write our names down and he did first. So I got his first and last name, but did not have the balls to write down his phone number. I thought, well I can now check my former colleagues socials since we both know this guy but I cannot find him on any platform.
The next event where I am probably gonna see him is at the end of the month probably. And even then I dont know whether he will be there.
What should I do? Should I just make up an excuse at the club to ask for his details and approach him? Should I wait until our next meeting? I really dont want to scare him off. All tips and advices are welcome❤️
