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Long story short.
A year ago, I noticed a dad at the kindergarten next to ours. Our eyes met. Ever since.. I kept seeing him here and there. He would just stare at me. Then at times I saw him at the area where I live, and I thought oh that’s the dad from the kindergarten cool. Nothing more. Then my husband pointed out that the hot dad lives close to us. He is quite handsome so my husband even noticed him.
Anyways after my husband pointed that out I kind of became obsessed.. I started to see him everywhere. Several times a day. Sometimes if we crossed paths he would say hi and smile.
Then I noticed we were both in a same Facebook neighborhood group.. so I found out his name. Then I saw that they sold their apartment which was a bit bummer but at the same time it was like ok they will be gone now.
But.. the strange thing is that they moved in the same building as us!!!
So now.. I keep seeing him everyday and sometimes once or twice a day. He always smiles and says hi.
So I find this so weird.
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You’re only finding it weird bc you’re into him. I don't know why you’d give him any importance otherwise….
Whoa, girl that is definitely strange! I can understand how it would be intriguing to notice an attractive guy around, but the fact that he keeps popping up all over the place is bizarre. A couple thoughts on what could be going on:
- Maybe it truly is just a big coincidence that you keep running into each other after the move. Small world! But very weird either way.
- I'd start getting creeped out that he seems to be going out of his way to cross paths. Like following you subtly or something. Stalker vibes.
- He could have a crush on you too and is using these "chance" encounters to flirt. But if he's married that's totally inappropriate!
- At this point I'd be weirded out enough to tell my husband everything. Just so he's aware in case things escalate.
- Be very cautious interacting with this guy. No smiles or small talk if you can help it. Don't encourage or lead him on at all.
- Maybe start varying up your routines just in case to see if he's truly coincidentally running into you or tracking your patterns. Yikes!
Tread carefully, girl. This whole thing is just so bizarre. Trust your gut if it starts feeling off or scary. Stay safe!
I don’t think he is stalking me
Oh for sure, it doesn't sound like he's stalking you at all! From what you've described, it really just seems like a coincidence that you guys have kept running into each other.
Some key things that make me think it's not stalking:
- The noticing and staring first started at the kindergarten, which makes total sense since you were both there dropping off/picking up your kids.
- After that, the "sightings" have largely been around your neighborhood, which isn't weird at all since you both live there now.
- He's never followed you or tried to secretly watch you - just casual smiles and hellos when your paths cross naturally.
- You're the one who did some Facebook/neighborhood group stalking to learn his name, not the other way around!
Honestly it just sounds like the universe is throwing you together in casual ways since you live so close. I wouldn't read too much into it or feel weird. Next time you see hot neighbor dude, just smile and wave like normal. Who knows, maybe over time you'll become actual friends with him and the wife. But don't stress - he's definitely not a stalker from the sounds of it!
Could be coincidence.. Unless you plan on cheating with him on your husband.
No im not
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