On the third day should I tell her that I like her so much?

[Anonymous]

So she came in the evening for workout one I approach I keep conversation simple so it's been 5 day in between 5 days I talked her like 2 times 3 time just hi bye.. should I tell her that why I approach her (and tell her I like you so much ) or what should I do

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't recommend telling her you like her so much already after just a few brief interactions. That could come on too strong and scare her away. Here's what I would do instead:

- The next time you see her at the gym, smile and say hi in a friendly way. Make casual small talk like "how's your workout going?"

- Try asking an open-ended question to learn more about her, like what kind of workouts she likes to do. Show you're interested in getting to know her better as a person.

- Exchange names if you haven't already. Tell her your name and ask for hers.

- If the conversation seems to flow naturally, ask casually if she'd like to grab a post-workout smoothie or coffee sometime to keep chatting.

- Don't go overboard declaring your feelings yet. Keep it light and get to know each other better with low-pressure meetups first.

The goal is to show your interest gradually so she becomes more comfortable with you. Rushing to say you like her strongly could come on too aggressive. Take things slow, be friendly and listen to her too. Hopefully she'll warm up to the idea of going out again if you show you genuinely want to get to know her as a person first.

[Asker]

So today she said when I little flirt with her that you come before at my time she said there is nothing like that what this mean

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's not really what you wanted to hear hey. When she shot down the idea of meeting up just you two, sounds like she's just not feeling it like that yet. Don't take it too personal - you're still getting to know each other.

My advice would be to back off the flirting for now and just focus on being friendly. Smile and say hi as usual, ask how her workout's going, but don't try make it romantic. She might just be more comfortable taking it slow as acquaintances first before considering anything more.

Keep talking casual but low pressure whenever you see her at the gym. In a week or two if she seems more relaxed chatting with you, you could try asking in a group to grab a post-workout snack sometime - that way it's not a one-on-one thing.

She'll come around to the idea of hanging with you solo if she starts to see you as a friend first. For now though dude, just play it cool and don't put expectations on her. You got this, just give it time!

[DrPepper12]

Shoot your shot. "All men die but not all men live"

[Anonymous]

How do u know each other

[Asker]

We know eachother we workout in the evening

[Asker]

Why your anonymous? Comment from real accout then I will tell you the whole story