Do you think pole dances and lap dances are hot?

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Just a question =)

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Want to add more to what @msmissydc said in her opinion.

Pole dances can be viewed as artistic. It’s a 50/50. It has that potential, meanwhile lap dances are usually entirely sexual.

Pole dances can be related to Aerial, Aerial Hooping, and Hoop dances to name a few. All “acrobatic,” aesthetic, artistic in form. They can be a hobby. It’s done purely for the enjoyment of the dancer and not reliant on anyone else- as with lap dancing relying on some reaction/ reactionary response from the recipient. Lap dances aren’t a real hobby. I don't know

So one can only be hot- or not! lol and the other can be both hot and just beautiful. Context matters.

Kelly6 · Accepted Answer

@misfitslover92 For these dances you need a fit body, only classes don't work. neither it is easy job, looks easy but not.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

Let me tell you , with a vast knowledge of the industry , anyone who says " Not my thing " has not experienced the correct product , and so many differences Country to Country , individual to individual..

In so so many cases , highly sexual , yet better than penetration , open your mind to the true and actual product / participation... one on ones ( not pole dancing ) with someone hand selected , its beyond magic , but you need to understand your mark and what you actually want..

Smokin HOT !

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I think they are in good shape I think if they know how to use that pole or their body to seduce it could be very hot it's an art that can be used for seduction for tease for pleasure but if you don't know what you're doing you're going to make a lot of people just kind of smile and laugh probably still get turned on but still LOL

slippery2000 · Answer

It can be exciting if it's a significant other or someone who you know has feelings for you and there's a good chance of something taking place after the fact, but to go pay for lap dances or go to the strip club and pay to see naked women, I'd say it's not really my thing. I'm better off just staying at home and watching free videos on phub at that point.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Yeah it can be super hot, especially if done by @mandyfire98

Jhoward · Answer

A good pole dancer has to be strong and athletic must be in good shape it's not that easy plus doing it without being clumsy. Lap dancing you have to have a very nice body and know how to use it to make it a good experience

I'm a female and got a private lap dance for my birthday and she was hot and took her time and when she was done ì ĥad an orgasm she gave me a birthday kiss. Full French kiss and said sweet dreams baby then left. I was seeing stars she got paid well.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Yeah I think the right lady dancing suggestively and provocatively is hot , and it’s quite a skill when done properly. I’ve had a couple of lap-dances and watched a few pole dances and with my curiosity now sated I’ve no real desire to do it again.

asarjam · Answer

Well I don't own one in the house LOL - but when you have amateur night at a strip club with your boyfriend or spouse, and you dance for him and the guys... who doesn't get turned on?

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Yeah. I always thought pole dancing looked cool honestly. I mean, it's better than everyone just twerking everywhere. LOL Plus, it can also be good for your body.

msmissydc · Answer

Poledance us fun. Lapdances are purely sexual in nature so yeah they might be hit for some people.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup definitely they r.. lap dance weighs higher though

DryGermanGuy · Answer

"And the worst part is, that little girl grinding and dry humping the fucking stage up there, that’s somebody’s daughter up there."  - Melissa, The Hangover

Nikki1989 · Answer

They can be, depending on who is doing the dancing. It is a great way to exercise, by the way.

FreyaRed · Answer

Damn sexy.  On pole dance championship was my first job from model agency and first time I earned money. XD

Tarifa · Answer

Pole dance by a random girl, no. Lap dance or any other suggestive poses by my partner, yes. She loves to flash her boobs at me.

Nerdvana · Answer

Yes, very. Do you know anyone who is offering?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

my mother's mother is teaching my daughter and her child to do this. i'm thinking of making it a tether ball instead.

DaBiggestBird · Answer

No, instead I try to look at the pole thing from an artistic perspective, like going out for a walk in the park and suddenly realizing how beautiful nature is or something

princeofromance · Answer

I have dated a pole dancer in the past. Her body was so flexible and it made the sex amazing.

Roldrake · Answer

Wait is she dancing on 'my pole' or just 'a pole'? If it is on my pole then definitely I vote yes. Nice tip for her too!

emeraldsaphire · Answer

I like giving lap dances. I've thought about trying pole too, but I don't want all the pain and pole burns on my skin. Plus these days I'm an old lady.

bowenw · Answer

I've never had a lap dance, but I'm sure they are hot. Pole dances are hot when done by someone who knows what they are doing.

AliceGregory · Answer

I don't know about hot but I've tried pole dancing and it's fun :)

OneViewpoint · Answer

Pole dances and lap dances. Not hot. Cringe worthy / uncomfortable. Especially if the girl isn't really very good at it. What I end up feeling is more embarrassment for her than a turn on.

SuchSightsToShowYou · Answer

I am not attracted to poles, and I don't think a pole would be any more attractive if it was dancing, which poles can't do anyway.

soe11 · Answer

Absolutely yes, but depending on the person.  My girlfriend does too, occasionally.

Anonymous · Answer

Lap dances, sure. But it's cheating if you aren't single. Pole dances are okay, but my phone has better stuff a couple clicks away.

Desi_Butcher · Answer

At home? Yes. Lap dance is hotter and more sensual in my opinion than pole dance.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Hell yeah but only if it's done by my future wife and only at home, i don't like women who works such things for money, such as selling their bodies!

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

As long as they have the vibe with the music. The enthusiasm is what's hot

chick1498 · Answer

Yes and yes. Providing they are decent at it. Pole dancing I like when they are talented and also like when they get into it and involve the crowd

Anonymous · Answer

pole dancing, lap dances, stripping, lingerie, sex, all of it!

Jj1994 · Answer

I should try it, looks fun

HungTexan · Answer

And if the woman is hot then it’s awesome!

Anonymous · Answer

Not really my thing, I prefer girls of action.

Anonymous · Answer

Lap dances much more so than pole dances in my opinion.

Jeremy123456 · Answer

I have a stripper pole at my house and I will use it for a minimum of two hours a day

Anonymous · Answer

Depends who does them and their levels of talent.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Look at that stick figure go *whistles*

genericname85 · Answer

i mean that's litterally the only reason they exist. so yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

Waste of time and money. Does not get me off at all.

Anonymous · Answer

They’re hot, but I’m not gonna marry a pole dancer. Adults stars are hot but never married a hoe.

Anastasia06 · Answer

Yes why are you offering?

slatyb · Answer

They certainly can be.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

He seems to think so :)

Massageman · Answer

I can't dance hanging from a pole any more.

Jay-_- · Answer

If it's your PFP on the pole I'll consider it 😅

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Well it’s popular

bananathunder · Answer

yeah, I like to watch lol

nawtee_me · Answer

I also think you are hot too.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Lap dances certainly are

Paige90 · Answer

They are very hot and also great exercise!

katiesmuff · Answer

Not really my thing!

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, if you can't touch then why?

jjj101010 · Answer

I think they can be hot

TadCurious · Answer

Not for me.

Chloe1225 · Answer

Yes received few definitely hot.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Don’t care for them

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes at home

TallAnon · Answer

Depends on the girl

Fury_storm · Answer

not hot. kinda crude

QuietRunner · Answer

hot AF!

Furkifurkan · Answer

Yes of course

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