
Do you think pole dances and lap dances are hot?


Want to add more to what @msmissydc said in her opinion.
Pole dances can be viewed as artistic. It’s a 50/50. It has that potential, meanwhile lap dances are usually entirely sexual.
Pole dances can be related to Aerial, Aerial Hooping, and Hoop dances to name a few. All “acrobatic,” aesthetic, artistic in form. They can be a hobby. It’s done purely for the enjoyment of the dancer and not reliant on anyone else- as with lap dancing relying on some reaction/ reactionary response from the recipient. Lap dances aren’t a real hobby. I don't know
So one can only be hot- or not! lol and the other can be both hot and just beautiful. Context matters.
I voted yes, they’re pretty cool, but it really depends on the situation. When people make it cheap, is when I have to pass on it.
I’d rather not do either of those with or near drunkards and high or sweaty people. People with stds or something. Definitely never in some club or bar. Just not my kind of atmosphere. 🤷♀️💯
@misfitslover92 For these dances you need a fit body, only classes don't work.
neither it is easy job, looks easy but not.
I heard that it was hard, but worth it.
@molonski2 you do know that we can't do that.
Let me tell you , with a vast knowledge of the industry , anyone who says " Not my thing " has not experienced the correct product , and so many differences Country to Country , individual to individual..
In so so many cases , highly sexual , yet better than penetration , open your mind to the true and actual product / participation... one on ones ( not pole dancing ) with someone hand selected , its beyond magic , but you need to understand your mark and what you actually want..
Smokin HOT !
I think they are in good shape I think if they know how to use that pole or their body to seduce it could be very hot it's an art that can be used for seduction for tease for pleasure but if you don't know what you're doing you're going to make a lot of people just kind of smile and laugh probably still get turned on but still LOL
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It can be exciting if it's a significant other or someone who you know has feelings for you and there's a good chance of something taking place after the fact, but to go pay for lap dances or go to the strip club and pay to see naked women, I'd say it's not really my thing. I'm better off just staying at home and watching free videos on phub at that point.
Yeah it can be super hot, especially if done by @mandyfire98
Yeah if i looked like her I would give them every day. People want me tp give them one but I don't know I'm a little shy about my body :/
Every Tuesday and Thursday. Pole days. Lol. Ok now that sounds bad lol.
That's not bad, I wish I could rock that kind of confidence. I'm working on it... some day =)
I'll learn how to show off eventually. Maybe I should take pole dance classes =)
You should definitely take classes. It doubles as an amazing workout as well.
OK when I get money for it I will. =)
@mandyfire98 have u ever done it naked in a strip club?
No lol. I've never been naked in a strip club.
A good pole dancer has to be strong and athletic must be in good shape it's not that easy plus doing it without being clumsy. Lap dancing you have to have a very nice body and know how to use it to make it a good experience
I'm a female and got a private lap dance for my birthday and she was hot and took her time and when she was done ì ĥad an orgasm she gave me a birthday kiss. Full French kiss and said sweet dreams baby then left. I was seeing stars she got paid well.
Yeah I think the right lady dancing suggestively and provocatively is hot , and it’s quite a skill when done properly. I’ve had a couple of lap-dances and watched a few pole dances and with my curiosity now sated I’ve no real desire to do it again.
Well I don't own one in the house LOL - but when you have amateur night at a strip club with your boyfriend or spouse, and you dance for him and the guys... who doesn't get turned on?
Yeah. I always thought pole dancing looked cool honestly. I mean, it's better than everyone just twerking everywhere. LOL Plus, it can also be good for your body.
Poledance us fun. Lapdances are purely sexual in nature so yeah they might be hit for some people.
Yup definitely they r.. lap dance weighs higher though
Yeah theyre more intimate 💕
And make men go crazy... the expressions on their faces r priceless hehe
Hell yeah ;) ! 💕 💞
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"And the worst part is, that little girl grinding and dry humping the fucking stage up there, that’s somebody’s daughter up there."
- Melissa, The Hangover
They can be, depending on who is doing the dancing. It is a great way to exercise, by the way.
Damn sexy.
On pole dance championship was my first job from model agency and first time I earned money. XD
Pole dance by a random girl, no. Lap dance or any other suggestive poses by my partner, yes. She loves to flash her boobs at me.
Yes, very. Do you know anyone who is offering?
Not yet ;) but soon
my mother's mother is teaching my daughter and her child to do this. i'm thinking of making it a tether ball instead.
No, instead I try to look at the pole thing from an artistic perspective, like going out for a walk in the park and suddenly realizing how beautiful nature is or something
I have dated a pole dancer in the past. Her body was so flexible and it made the sex amazing.
Over all i think pole dancing is a good thing =)
Wait is she dancing on 'my pole' or just 'a pole'? If it is on my pole then definitely I vote yes. Nice tip for her too!
I like giving lap dances. I've thought about trying pole too, but I don't want all the pain and pole burns on my skin. Plus these days I'm an old lady.
I've never had a lap dance, but I'm sure they are hot. Pole dances are hot when done by someone who knows what they are doing.
I don't know about hot but I've tried pole dancing and it's fun :)
Pole dances and lap dances. Not hot. Cringe worthy / uncomfortable. Especially if the girl isn't really very good at it. What I end up feeling is more embarrassment for her than a turn on.
I am not attracted to poles, and I don't think a pole would be any more attractive if it was dancing, which poles can't do anyway.
Lap dances, sure. But it's cheating if you aren't single. Pole dances are okay, but my phone has better stuff a couple clicks away.
At home? Yes.
Lap dance is hotter and more sensual in my opinion than pole dance.
Hell yeah but only if it's done by my future wife and only at home, i don't like women who works such things for money, such as selling their bodies!
As long as they have the vibe with the music. The enthusiasm is what's hot
Yes and yes. Providing they are decent at it. Pole dancing I like when they are talented and also like when they get into it and involve the crowd
pole dancing, lap dances, stripping, lingerie, sex, all of it!
I should try it, looks fun
I'm going to try it too.
Thank you, you too 💕
And if the woman is hot then it’s awesome!
I would have to agree lol. Who wants a dance from a 500 lb. woman covered in pimples?
Not really my thing, I prefer girls of action.
Lap dances much more so than pole dances in my opinion.
I have a stripper pole at my house and I will use it for a minimum of two hours a day
Depends who does them and their levels of talent.
Look at that stick figure go *whistles*
That was added for amusement lol. I think if I was a man I'd want her to have boobs 😆
Sounds like you have a degree in boobatry and boobamatics lol
Well I wear a 34 D so I may know a few things haha
So youve mastered boobatronics, nah foreal tho, you sound secure about them, that's good indeed 🙂💯
i mean that's litterally the only reason they exist. so yeah.
Waste of time and money. Does not get me off at all.
They’re hot, but I’m not gonna marry a pole dancer. Adults stars are hot but never married a hoe.
Yes why are you offering?
Not that brave yet, but I do want to try it some day.
I’ve done it but it was more for a workout it. Hard.
Yeah I hear it's good exercise
They certainly can be.
He seems to think so :)
I can't dance hanging from a pole any more.
If it's your PFP on the pole I'll consider it 😅
Well it’s popular
yeah, I like to watch lol
I also think you are hot too.
Lap dances certainly are
They are very hot and also great exercise!
Not really my thing!
no, if you can't touch then why?
I think they can be hot
Not for me.
Yes received few definitely hot.
Don’t care for them
Yes at home
Depends on the girl
not hot. kinda crude
hot AF!
Yes of course
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