She's super interesting and flirty irl but never really texts back?

[ananias55]

So basically, I have a co-worker who i click with. Im always making her laugh, and we've flirted quite a bit. But that seems to be our dynamic at work. She mentioned to me multiple times that she's single and left obvious hints. But I struggle expressing myself. So I have her number now, and I text her here and there. But she rarely replies, and sometimes she leaves me on read. Im confused about this situation.

[Staximus]

Grow some balls and just ask her out to dinner

[ananias55]

That might work. I struggle with understanding emotions, especially my own. A direct approach might be the best thing to do.

[ananias55]

But you didn't answer the question

[Staximus]

So you think she wants to send stupid texts back and forth forever? Ask her in person if she wants to go do something fun. Take her to a concert or something.

[ananias55]

You're useless

[Staximus]

No, you're an idiot who is wasting her time because you're too much of a chicken shit to just ask her out on a date

[Ironic_Method]

In my experience, it's not worth pursuing unreciprocated effort.

[jahaims]

She uses you for an ego stroke while at work cuz she is bored

[In_Trance]

So what's your question