Did you ever flaunt your body to attract someone?

[Desi_Butcher]

[HawkPerception]

When I'm in relationships, kind of? I like being fit for both myself and my partner. I like them being attracted to my body. But I'm usually the kind of guy that gets awkward taking off his shirt because I feel people think I'm being cocky about my physique. Even at a beach, I feel a little awkward for that reason.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Desi_Butcher I wear t-shirts in summer with short sleeves 👕

👀

I don't think I'm flaunting my physique.

Likewise, countless women over the years, I'm sure they were just existing aka like me they were just going about their business, wearing accommodating to the weather forecast, and that it wasn't to attract a mate

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Desi_Butcher there's a first time for almost everything and hey - I'm sure some ladies have eyeballed me whether I was in short sleeves or long sleeves, in pants or in shorts - 👀 ahhh, women, - if only they knew that I knew that I know they're staring into my soul, even when I'm looking away / my back to them to the back of my head 👌😆

[janemarie15]

It depends on the intention behind it haha. Others use it as a form of confidence or self expression.

[Desi_Butcher]

So have ur intentions ever been otherwise? Haha

[Tereza07]

I think everyone does it, even when they dont think about it... So yeah I definetly did.

[Desi_Butcher]

Hmmm.. nothing intentional? @Tereza07

[Tereza07]

Tbh yes when i really like the guy. But nothing dirty or too clearly visible

[Desi_Butcher]

Haha gotcha! Wonder what you'd have done if u saw him interested lol

[msbelli123]

It's all right... you got to try every tricks on your book... so at least someone will look at you.. finally

[Leodeh]

I try not to, though I do notice men looking at me.

[Desi_Butcher]

So you are blessed with something very attractive then 😉

[Leodeh]

I am an ordinary-looking Finnish girl.

[Desi_Butcher]

There's definitely more to you than just 'ordinary'

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure everyone has worn clothes or done something to deliberately draw the attention of their crush to some part of their body.

So, yeah, maybe...

[Desi_Butcher]

Haha nice confession

[Opinion Owner]

I just mean, what woman hasn't chosen to wear, say, a skirt or heels or slinky dress to impress? What guy hasn't left the top buttons on his shirt open?

[Dorka303]

Yes i did🫣

[Daurs]

I think you succeed.

[Anonymous]

When I found out I was able to do this I definitely would if there was someone I wanted.

[OneViewpoint]

Yeah, I don't think that works for guys. Not in US culture anyway.

[sportsman_MD]

It does if you have a good body

[OneViewpoint]

@sportsman_MD ,

I can’t really think of a male equivalent for cleavage or a miniskirt. Just not a thing guys do.

[sportsman_MD]

It’s okay, if you can’t flaunt it confidently yourself just watch ‘em when they’re looking at Channing Tatum or models shirtless.

[OneViewpoint]

@sportsman_MD ,

You’re talking about film actors in a movie script. After a hair and makeup and wardrobe team has dressed him up and a personal trainer gets him pumped up for the shot. Stupid example. Are you actually that dumb?

Now tell me where that happens in a non fantasy world outside of male strippers.

When’s the last time you were at an upscale wine bar on a Friday night and you ripped open your shirt to expose your magnificent studley hairy chest and your gold chains in your best guido pose.

[sportsman_MD]

Where it happens:
1. The beach
2. Public pools and gyms
3. Parties
You mean you only think it happens when actors get makeovers and not in everyday life? You’re the dumb one, not me.

Get yourself a cut 6-pack, broad shoulders, and some amazing biceps. They’ll look at you, bro, and they’ll even seek your attention. Taking care of yourself gets you privilege. Yes, sir. Try it.

[OneViewpoint]

@sportsman_MD ,

OK, I’ll give you the beach and pools. That’s a place where it fits in.

Parties? What parties? Frat boy keggers? Blow jobs in the bathroom parties?

Adjust your thinking to an adult professional level. And a public setting. It doesn’t happen.

[sportsman_MD]

Deny reality all you want bro lol That leaves ‘em all to me and other guys with bodies haha but tbh I hope you try it someday and see for yourself

[OneViewpoint]

@sportsman_MD ,

I was doing it before you were born. Nothing has changed.

Hang onto that discipline for the next 30 years. Or longer.

[sportsman_MD]

Trust me, will do. I take pride in my discipline.
You either don’t have a great body or lack the confidence. (Just by this convo, seems like the latter.) Wish you the best, man.
Plus, you do realize beaches and public pools are public places, right? Lolol Anyone on an “adult” or not even professional level but even novice would know that.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@OneViewpoint maybe if it's in certain communities like gay guys trying to attract other gay guys you know flexing their muscles flexing their singlets , shrug

[CherryLove007]

@OneViewpoint my ex boyfriend used to say if ladies can show their bum cheeks in shorts then I should be able to lower my pants and show the top of my dick... omg so some men are thinking that way. Call it dick cleavage. lol

[genericname85]

I don't know dude. i feel like as a man that's not very effective xD even if you look decent.

[Fireguy17]

Nope, I've never had to do that.

My physical size seems to speak for itself.

[MJVillarama]

Maybe a little. sometimes confidence is the best outfit you can wear!

[LiamJHayden]

No. I'm fit but am not interested in that kind of attention.

[mysteriousNicholas]

💪 that's what they all say until they do

[Ironco]

I'm not a one to flaunt my goods, I just act natural and let life play out.

I'm no slouch, but by no means a god, I just act myself.

[CherryLove007]

To attract mosquito's mainly.

[chrissykerdock]

yes but not necessarily

[Hªnnªh]

I get attracted easily by guys who have muscles because they can lift me lol

[Jammannn]

In the hookup culture I would say its the most effective strategy.

[thatgirl2000]

Yes. And it usually works

[Dinklex3]

Of course. He’s my boyfriend now.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Dinklex3 to use fishing slang, hook line and sinker 🐟 🎣 lucky you two lovebirds

[DishLady]

Nope.

[sportsman_MD]

Have done it plenty of times.

[Drumlin2001]

That would not work, I have nothing to flaunt

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Drumlin2001 alright, we get it, you're rich or flashing your cash out of your wallet (because you need a newer wallet ( lol 😆 counting his bills + 💵 checking his bills + funds back into aging Wallet.

[jkreuger95]

You said attract so... no

[exitseven]

No, I am pretty average.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never have.

[Abbycado]

Nope.

[Chayce]

Nah I’ve never done that

[zagor]

Too many scars to do that.

[Anonymous]

Not intentionally no.

[mysteriousNicholas]

My biceps just slide out of my long sleeve 😈🤭

[NervousIndividual]

No. I don't think people should do this.

[serious]

The answer is No.

[Valnaix]

What does flaunt mean?

[MikeTheBartender]

Yep.

[loveyouoak]

Never. Not my thing.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@loveyouoak until that one day, 👀 there was that really attractive guy she could see nearby and she thought "game on - watch and weep ladies" - strut strut strut she goes 🌲