Okay I think either I’m going out of my mind or not but there is this guy that I have noticed a while back and we haven’t spoke but catch glances?

[Olgaa334]

Me and this guy I haven’t spoke to before keep catching glances I don't know what’s his problem or made it’s a me problem but a few times now I’ve noticed his prolonged glance it’s like I litterly spot him at places today I was walking with my mom and I see him again I was just facing his way didn’t even know it was him then he kinda turns around and glanced at me I spoke to my sister and she said he is too young for me and I’m too old for him I don't know y'all am I being delusional

[bowenw]

He must find you attractive and can't stop looking at you.
If you like him, try talking to him even if he is a couple of years younger. That isn't a big difference in the grand scheme of things.

[Olgaa334]

My sisters even mentioned how me is prob very young for me and made me doubt myself

[Olgaa334]

And I doubt that’s true I’m not all that attractive maybe he just looking at me and thinking the opposite

[bowenw]

In my experience, guys don't stare at girls they find unattractive.

[Olgaa334]

Maybe they dooo

[bowenw]

Anything is possible, but I've never noticed them doing that, or done it myself.

[Olgaa334]

Maybe he thinks I’m weird

[bowenw]

That could be, but I kind of doubt it.

[Olgaa334]

Than why won’t he come up amd talk to me or something?

[bowenw]

He may be shy or not know what to say. He may also feel intimidated because you are a few years older.

[Olgaa334]

lol I get told I look younger by the way

[bowenw]

It's probably nervousness.

[Olgaa334]

It’s not that it’s just I be walking from far I feel his presence and glance am I overthinking this?

[bowenw]

If you catch him looking at you, you're not overthinking.

[Olgaa334]

Eghh maybe I am

[bowenw]

Do you know any of his friends you could ask if he has mentioned you?

[Olgaa334]

Nopee

[Olgaa334]

I think imma just move on

[bowenw]

Okay. Hopefully he will talk to you if he is interested.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Desi_Butcher]

If you're too old for him and you're 18, so what's he like? 13-14?
Anyway it's all in the head. Mind loves to create stories when actually there's nothing.

[Olgaa334]

No I mean a few years younger than me like 16

[Olgaa334]

But ok

[Desi_Butcher]

Yeah don't fret. It can mostly be delusional in that age even when you're in ur 20s

[Olgaa334]

Why?

[Desi_Butcher]

Until you're single that's how you're gonna be looking at things reading hints from guys even when something could just be coincidence etc

[Olgaa334]

Says been going on for like a month now with me and him

[Desi_Butcher]

Then just wait it out.. he's young for u anyway

[Olgaa334]

Lol 😝

[Desi_Butcher]

U r welcum in DMs to talk more coz comments are getting long

[Northstar84]

He probably is attracted to you, if he’s as young as you think he is then his weird and immature behaviour is somewhat understandable. I think if you’re 18 and he’s like 15 you shouldn’t get involved with him.

[Olgaa334]

Do you think it’s weird this been happening in my mind at least?

[Northstar84]

It’s exciting to know someone is attracted to you. If you fantasize about him, that’s okay it’s your fantasy

[Olgaa334]

I might be probably imagining this all in my head!

[Northstar84]

The mind is known to play tricks

[Anonymous]

catching glances = meaningless

[Olgaa334]

lol yes who
Knows what he thinking