What's your flirting style?

Question

For me, it's definitely shy, subtle, coy because I don't really know how to flirt well but if I do flirt it's definitely not bold or direct.

Hardon-Collider · Accepted Answer

Flirting is by definition a hot-cold inconvenience. Look up the definition of flirting.

I try to never flirt. If i want to be someone's romantic partner, i hit on them directly. But not before getting to know them as a person, otherwise it's creepy and disgusting.

When someone looks funny, you don't just laugh at them in their face. When you're angry, you just scream... or you don't, i guess. When hungry, you don't just eat without washing hands. Right? So why in hell is it normal to have hookups or verbal hookups ("flirting") as soon as you get horny? People have no nerve, weak souls, cannot stand a slightest amount of mental resistance. We all lift weights because it keeps our physical health in existence. But why don't we embrace mental resistance to be mentally stronger? Just chasing release and relaxation 100% of the time?

Anyway, i get the point of flirting as an attempt to curb boredom. If it's itching more than you can withstand, you can crack a non sexual joke that makes everyone's day better, not just yours.

So you could say in the simplest terms, if nothing above can be grasped, that my "flirting" is direct and deliberate, i dislike specifically when people double speak about their intentions and try to make it passable as an accident or coincidence. Of course if you're not doing it as a means to lie better, being a bit indirect is ok. ㅤ

Still-alive · Accepted Answer

I like witty banter a lot. its fun. so like ill turn things they say and such and turn it playful and fun

Bitter_Sweet94 · Accepted Answer

Subtle, intentional, and grounded.

I flirt through presence, not performance.

Eye contact, thoughtful responses, a bit of wit, and knowing when to pause instead of pushing.

I don’t chase reactions or force chemistry.

If there’s interest, it shows naturally in how the conversation flows.

Flirting, to me, is less about impressing
and more about making someone feel seen, comfortable, and curious.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Oh, something like that. XD

HawkPerception · Answer

I don't really flirt. I just talk to people like I do with anyone. Only difference is I tell them I'm interested in them and ask them questions about who they are and what makes them tick. I basically study whoever I'm interested in until I ask them if they wanna go out with me

OneViewpoint · Answer

Fast and furious. Double entendre. Vague potential insults... or was that a compliment? Misinterpreting her comments (purposely). Teasing. Challenging her to keep up. Just being a general pain in the ass and making her laugh / spit out her pinot grigio.

Sunrising · Answer

I would make it clear and obvious if I was interested in a female.

I think it's ok to play hard to get, or play it cool, when someone is younger, but I'm not young, anymore, and I don't want to waste anymore time.

My approach isn't the romantic boy chases girl, but I think if an opportunity arises, I need to grap it quickly.

WhitneySnow · Answer

The same as yours. I’m pretty good at flirting but I prefer to let the guy or girl take the lead and respond to their cues. There are exceptions though.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

As a German knowledgeable about our local fairytales, I think I prefer to lay a line of chocolate hearts to my luxurious gingerbread cabin in the Black Forest. :-D

Twodogs0525 · Answer

If I have a couple drinks in me, I was always pretty outgoing and girls have said charming with a nice sense of humor. If I didn't have a couple in me, I was more quiet and reserved.

Nicole12t · Answer

Well im really not sure yet. Sorry im not much of a help on this

emeraldsaphire · Answer

I'm direct, a little needy, a little bratty and a lot of cute lol

capriVib · Answer

I wait for eye contact. If she looks at me, I go talk to her, find common ground, compliment her, get her contact info, and set up a date.

katiesmuff · Answer

Guess it was certainly direct and certainly was obvious!

Nikki1989 · Answer

If you think I am flirting, it is purely accidental. I am a flirt by nature, but it is never my intention.

MJVillarama · Answer

Shy and subtle works. less pressure, more curiosity. Learned this tip from  .

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Lately, I think mostly D, but she has to be extremely obvious. That's in real life. Online is different.

ABC1x1x · Answer

Im direct and obvious. Ironically I appreciate your style had you been flirting with me. I dont like direct women, my style, flirting with me. I think its the yin yang thing.

msc545 · Answer

I don't flirt. It's too damn dangerous. If a man flirts with a woman and she isn't attracted to him, he is likely to be accused of harassment or assault. It's not worth it.

dudeinohio · Answer

Probably waiting for their first move... I have trouble initiating; but once that happens, I'm all in.

Agape93 · Answer

Oh I'm obvious.

valentina4eva · Answer

waiting for ur first move or shy, subtle coy!!😊✨

exitseven · Answer

I never flirt. I am too scared.

Dina88 · Answer

I tend to be subtle, not shy, though.

Jerre · Answer

I believe I am thoughtful

Anonymous · Answer

I'm too shy and I don't know how to flirt.

FreyaRed · Answer

Suggestive.

wkhan_87 · Answer

Being polite and soft

Evsisa · Answer

I don’t flirt.

imjustagirl15 · Answer

i dont flirt

Ugilo · Answer

Hard to get

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