There are 5 main flirting styles; Physical, Traditional, Polite, Sincere, and Playful. Flirting Style Quiz Physical, sincere, playful, traditional, or polite?Physical– individuals with this flirting style feel comfortable expressing their desire through physical behavior. Consequently, they generally have an easy time signaling their attraction, and their behavior is often likely to be interpreted as sexual in nature.
Sincere– individuals with this flirting style focus on creating an emotional bond with their potential romantic partners. As such, they tend to develop intimacy early on in relationships, by eliciting self-disclosure, providing social support, and showing personal interest, generally in a romantic (but not necessarily sexual) manner.
Playful-- individuals with this flirting style tend to flirt in a way that is playful and lighthearted. As such, they are generally not concerned with how others may interpret their behavior, and they often view flirting as a behavior that is inherently satisfying, even if it doesn’t lead to anything serious.
Traditional– individuals with this flirting style attempt to behave within the boundaries of traditional gender roles. As such, they expect the man to be the active initiator in the courtship process, and the woman to play a more passive role.
Polite-- individuals with this flirting style use a relatively cautious approach to courtship. As such, they tend to avoid behaviors that could potentially be construed by others as inappropriate, aggressive, or needy.
My answer: On my flirting style quiz (link provided), I got 100% traditional, 100% sincere, 100% polite, 10% playful, 10% physical.
I just went with the quiz and this is what I got...
-- Physical style: very physical (90–100%) You scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic. ------ this one refers mostly to body language, and yes... I definitely make use of it to convey and communicate my interest as well as perceive the interest of others, and it was one of my very first ways to handle myself around people in all senses, and so in flirty situations as well...
-- Traditional style: not at all traditional You scored higher than 0–10% of other survey takers in your demographic. ----- this one refers mostly to those very rigid and older traditions that believe in the man being the dominant, aggressive figure and that requires for the woman to be passive and submissive, I and definitely not interested on that all... I rather strive for balance and do seek someone that is assertive, driven and as confident as me and that will not intimidate me or make me insecure at all
-- Polite style: somewhat polite You scored higher than 60–70% of other survey takers in your demographic. ----- this one refers to being more proper rather than overly crude, as well as being more selective and having a more meaningful engagement... and yes, I sure am not a flirt that will just do it left and right and with just anybody, for the sake of flirting... lol
-- Sincere style: very sincere You scored higher than 80–90% of other survey takers in your demographic. ----- this one refers to the interest in a more emotional connection as well as a genuine chemistry.. and yes, I am most definitely up for that
-- Playful style: playful You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic. ----- I can definitely be playful with it... mostly when women will flirt with me, which tends to happen way more often that me starting to be the one flirting with them... and this is how I learned most of these interactions, I do like to have a well paced back and forth, not too little and not too much... to me it is best to first explore a bit and figure out what the other person might be about
Physical style: somewhat physical You scored higher than 70–80% of other survey takers in your demographic. You are somewhat comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are somewhat capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and somewhat effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was somewhat likely that you:Felt attracted right away. Were successful when you flirted using your body language.
Traditional style: not very traditional You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic. You do not really believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are not very likely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is not very likely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not really believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are not very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Polite style: very polite You scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic. You strongly believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are very unlikely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Sincere style: very sincere You scored higher than 80–90% of other survey takers in your demographic. You are very interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting very flattering, and strongly believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is very likely that you are: Successful Confident Able to quickly determine relationship potential In serious relationships, you are very likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry.
Playful style: not at all playful You scored higher than 10–20% of other survey takers in your demographic. You are very unlikely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You strongly believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very unlikely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very unlikely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very unlikely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.
40–50%Physical90–100%Traditional90–100%Polite60–70%Sincere20–30%Playful Physical style: physicalYou scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic. For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior. Traditional style: very traditionalYou scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic. You strongly believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very likely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you strongly believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships. Polite style: very politeYou scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic. You strongly believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are very unlikely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships. Sincere style: somewhat sincereYou scored higher than 60–70% of other survey takers in your demographic. You are somewhat interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting somewhat flattering, and believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is somewhat likely that you are:SuccessfulConfidentAble to quickly determine relationship potentialIn serious relationships, you are somewhat likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry. Playful style: not very playfulYou scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic. You are not very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are not very likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are not very likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not really believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were not very likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.
Physical style: not very physical You scored higher than 30–40% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was not very likely that you: Felt attracted right away. Were successful when you flirted using your body language. Traditional style: traditional You scored higher than 50–60% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior. Polite style: very polite You scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You strongly believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are very unlikely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships. Sincere style: somewhat sincere You scored higher than 60–70% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are somewhat interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting somewhat flattering, and believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is somewhat likely that you are: Successful Confident Able to quickly determine relationship potential In serious relationships, you are somewhat likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry. Playful style: not at all playful You scored higher than 10–20% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very unlikely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You strongly believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very unlikely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very unlikely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very unlikely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.
Physical style: very physical You scored higher than 80–90% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was very likely that you:Felt attracted right away. Were successful when you flirted using your body language. Traditional style: not at all traditional You scored higher than 10–20% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very unlikely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships. Polite style: not at all polite You scored higher than 0–10% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are very unlikely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are very likely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships. Sincere style: sincere You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior. Playful style: playful You scored higher than 50–60% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
80-90% physical: very physical. You are very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was very likely that you: Felt attracted right away. Were successful when you flirted using your body language. (This was surprising! It's true though. Wasn't fully aware😬) Traditional: not very traditonal -- 20–30% said I take charge and am not selective about who I flirt with and don't need to know a romantic partner long. Polite: somewhat polite. 70–80% -- says the exact opposite of the one above. Okkkaaayyyy. Sincere: very sincere 90–100% You are very interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting very flattering, and strongly believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. (Yes, yes and yes. If you are flirting with me you better mean business because if I'm flirting with you I sure do.) When flirting, it is very likely that you are:SuccessfulConfidentAble to quickly determine relationship potential (👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾 This. Is SO TRUE!) In serious relationships, you are very likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry. (Wouldn't have it any other way!) Playful: not very playful 20–30% You are not very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. (yeah I hate when people flirt just to flirt and make a game out of it. This has the potential to ruin marriages.) Cool question @WhatTheHeckkkk.
You scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was very likely that you:Felt attracted right away. Were successful when you flirted using your body language. Traditional style: traditional
You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior. Polite style: not very polite
You scored higher than 30–40% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not really believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are not very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be not very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is not very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are somewhat likely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are not very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships. Sincere style: sincere
You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior. Playful style: somewhat playful
You scored higher than 60–70% of other survey takers in your demographic.
50-60 % physical 50-60 % traditional 10-20 % polite (I don’t know why I got that I am actually quite polite) 20-30 % sincere ( I probably got this because I don’t usually flirt because I am interested, I just flirt, if I am really interested I get a bit shy and try to flirt less)
I am a huge flirt when on the mood. I find pleasure how you can make men do anything for you just with a little bit of flirt, like at parties I just say one word and a few guys go to do things for me. It’s like having my personal army and I am in the middle of them with a glass of red wine.
Physical style: very physicalYou scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic. You are very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was very likely that you: Felt attracted right away. Were successful when you flirted using your body language.
This was a fun quiz to take, I always love these kinds of quizzes 😄 My results came back pretty accurate, as I am a pretty physical flirt and I usually use body language too 😆 I am in a great relationship with my boyfriend too, so the last time I did seriously flirt. it did end up working thankfully 😂😊
Sexy eye contact Revealing clothes which reveal cleavage, waist and legs Build sexual tension Pretend to co-incedently wrap your hands around his neck Look into eyes and kiss passionately Don't Stop even he resists Take one hand under his pants and touch his manhood while kissing
I don’t flirt. I’m polite to everyone and most people misinterpret my politeness for flirting. I view it as an utter waste of time unless I’m in a relationship.
I’m more sincere and playful if I do flirt. I’m not comfortable with anyone touching me, not sure why. Even a mere hug can be awkward for me. I like forming an emotional bond with someone and then giving out sincere compliments.
Either sincere or polite, traditional is a little tricky for me still trying to figure out how that goes besides the basic obvious stuff. I'm not very good at playful, though I try to do it every now and then. In the end, I'm not very good at flirting, been trying to work on that but I'm more focused on bettering myself rather than women right now.
I'd say I'm somewhere between sincere and playful with a little physical thrown in. I'm always light-hearted and humorous with flirting but also create a closeness with the person, and use body language to make sure she knows the score.
On the test I got Physical 90-100% Traditional 40-50% Polite 20-30% Sincere 60-70% Playful 70-80%
No silly? Ok, then. I would have to say playful. I'm a bit of a goof. I have asked my SO what my flirting style was and he said 100% playful. I think with a good amount of silliness mixed in with it.
I remember back to the beginning what an idiot I probably looked like flirting with him. I have no filter when it comes to being silly. It worked though. He has a similar sense of humour. I love to laugh and so does he. It was a natural fit.
I dont i say u dtf or we fuckin me or not. Idc if its rude disrespectful gets me unmtached or whatever im straight to the point. I do not flirt if a chick is flirting with me in person ill get her snap or number and see whats up if she not down we done talking. And she no longer exist to me.
I tried flirting with a girl and it went horrible. It's gonna be called harassment if you are not physically attractive to girls. I just talk naturally otherwise girls think this guy wants something.
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That's the results I got but the genuine fact is I don't know how to flirt.
