Her and the guy that liked me are making fun of me and flirting with each other now.. how to handle?

[On_cloud_wine]

[Smart_Monk]

I wonder what exactly they are doing to "make fun of you", if what you think they do is truly their intention.

And also about flirting, what exactly they're doing can shape your perception and that alone can be enough to "handle" everything.

There are two distinct kinds of flirting, which boils down to being honest with oneself. The first is basically dirty talk in public (dirty or not, words used to get each other in the mood for fucking). Not to confuse with dirty topics under humor for the sake of comedy. That's not even flirting at all.

The other is more closely aligned with the dictionary definition of flirting, and unfortunately more common (both are dumb, but the former one at least is enjoyable).

Or i should say, I am merging both of these google-oxford subdefinition into one:

This one makes a person into a hedonistic pussy, impulsive enough to make sexual remarks in public but too irresponsible to stand with your intetions so you try to keep a path to back down. Your words are neither fish nor meat. It's not intriguing intellectually, not pleasant sensually, and too impotent to motivate the will. Only dumb people are entertained by that.

How to handle dumb people trying to upset you? By feeling sorry for them, their dumbness, their loss in the event if you have to fight them. I actually do this in real life. And it helps to not be annoyed.

[guywithafetish]

making fun of you? what are they 10 years old? Just ignore them and pretend it doesn't bother you, once they see they are not having any effect on your reaction they should stop. Trust me He is not worth the toilet paper i wipe my butt with if he makes fun of any Female, anybody for that matter. You deserve so much better.

[MissSunshine2]

She’s probably sleeping with him. He’s decided he doesn’t want anything serious and he’s sucking up to her to get more sex. It won’t last long. Their ‘relationship.’ If you really are fifteen, you need to find a guy your own age. You’re legally a minor.

unless you’re actually a lot older and they’re not making fun of you and he just decided he prefers her, which happens sometimes. In which case, I know it hurts, but one day you’ll meet someone who does like you back. You won’t be having to ask yourself tough questions.

[Nikki1989]

Many men never grow up. I know I keep saying it, but here again we have another example.

[FreyaRed]

You leave them alone, obviously you're not welcome or you're the third wheel on a bicycle

[Shy-boy53]

Be the bigger person, just rise above it. I know it will obviously be difficult , but you are better than they are being by the sounds of it

[Anonymous]

Just tune them both out and find someone else to flirt with. Are they really popular in your school?

[On_cloud_wine]

But why are they making fun of me?

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure. High school kids can be immature.

[On_cloud_wine]

Tge dude is 37, the girl is 28

[Opinion Owner]

Even less clue. But plenty of adults can be immature assholes too. Just tune them out and hopefully you’ll meet someone else you like.

[Staximus]

Aren't you like 38? Just tell them to piss off

[On_cloud_wine]

He actually likes me. She’s making a joke of it because she secretly likes him too.

[On_cloud_wine]

GIRLS KNOW GIRLS

[Staximus]

Who cares, tell them to fuck off

[On_cloud_wine]

It’s not like that. I act completely at cool and oblivious

[On_cloud_wine]

And if he is flirting with her and encouraging her, the easier it is to avoid him further more

[msc545]

Just ignore them. Kick them out of your life. Never speak to either one of them again. They are not your friends.

[Anonymous]

U don’t like him so who gives a shit. Let her keep your old toys

[On_cloud_wine]

I do like him but his fast advances makes me question his character and makes me assume he thinks I’m easy

[In_Trance]

Who would make fun of you?
Do you want me to take care of this for you?

[katiesmuff]

Simply ignore and go on with your life.

[beenherebefore]

Distance yourself from them.

[Hunter-40m]

İgnore them and move on

[zombiewoof]

Walk away, find good people to be around