Do most guys not see when girl flirting with him?

[Ladieman94]

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[Anonymous]

We do we just don't know how to respond as we aren't witty enough to make it cool.
Even if we are it's not going to work as it works for men joking around but not for women.
Women loves teasing or showing superiority through there words as it's there only weapon against men in many cases.
So men don't want to get played with fake ass flirting, they want a direct confirmation.
Like hey I like you.

[browsingthroughthe]

Sometimes I can tell 😉 and I pretend not to notice it.

👀

[Nikki1989]

Some men are clueless about just about anything to do with women. You should know if you have spent any time on here.

[gasman70]

so clue us in instead of pointing out the obvious, captain obvious

[Abbycado]

I don’t think that’s the case. We make it pretty obvious. At least most of us do.

[Abbycado]

The heck does the update have to do with the question?

[Ladieman94]

Thank u for responding to me

[OneViewpoint]

@Abbycado,

He's another mentally unstable weirdo. Look at his screen name. The question is just clickbait to get guys to engage. New account. Experience level 1. Off the wall question. I'm betting nothing useful comes from this question. But at least he's not posting anonymously.

[gasman70]

you think you think you make it obvious. I can't tell you how many times I've been told I've missed "obvious" flirting. That's because women's flirting techniques are very subdued and not obvious, like putting your finger in your hair doesn't shout at me, I'm flirting with you, even though a lot of women say, that's an obvious sign. mirroring what you're doing, like, kind of doing what you're doing is a sign, laughing at something we say is a sign, pointing your feet at us is a sign, I've read up on the signs, those are just some of them, and they aren't screaming, I'm flirting with you, unless you have extensive experience around women, as in having sisters or being lucky enough to have early dating opportunities to bolster up your vision. Most of the time guys just see this as you being present, not being flirtatious.

[OneViewpoint]

@gasman70 ,

What women view as "obvious signs" are all actually designed to be ambiguous. Why? Because it leaves them with the door open to plausible deniability. Women DO NOT want to be held accountable. They won't tell a guy they like him. And they won't tell him they don't like him. They will avoid direct communication at any cost. Up to and including missing out on a lot of guys who are tired of their cryptic hints and clues they can deny in an instant if they want to bail.

[DishLady]

They see. Most guys don't really need the podding if they like a gal they spot and feel drawn to. They'll just say "Hey" and something goofy. It's actually harder for a gal to see whether a guy is interested or just being goofy...

[gasman70]

most guys don't see it unless you go up to them and talk to them and force them to see it, anything else to most guys is just you being present. if you're attractive the flirting is just being present is enough for the guy to do the heavy lifting and it's not because he noticed it's because he wants so he takes

[DishLady]

Hmm. Interesting.

[texasgirl012]

No, most girls aren't blatant enough for guys to get it. For some reason, girls want deniability instead of just putting it out there that they like him or want sex. I understand some girls are kind of afraid of being rejected, so they just kind of half flirt instead of putting it in his face like guys need. I don't really get rejected, so I don't know what that fear is like, but I guess it can be pretty bad. It's just that you'll get more guys if you are more direct, even though it's "just flirting."

[DragonDan444]

It really depends one persons idea of flirting isn’t another’s. One woman’s flirting could be another woman’s just trying to be nice and vice versa. You have to read the person and just be honest. The best way to know is to be straight forward

[gasman70]

most guys don't see it because we don't know how women flirt, because men flirt outwardly and women flirt inwardly, meaning men aren't subtle about it and women are. Women, if you want to flirt with a guy, be less subtle about it, I know YOU think you are, but I guarantee you are not.

[RachyRach]

You have to spell things out for most guys. No awareness of subtly lol

[gasman70]

you are so right

[EmmaMary]

At times a lot of guys can't see any further than the end of their noses! lol

[gasman70]

so be more blatant, it isn't because we can't see past our noses, it's because our idea of flirting isn't your idea of flirting so we don't recognize it. it's like saying, you see two bodies of water from the sand and they are two different lakes, and you've never seen the one lake but you're supposed to know the name of the lake, and if you don't, you're somehow an idiot.

[AngryCarl3]

Most guys have no clue if a girl is flirting with them or not.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes we can't see two feet in front of us.

[Iron_Man]

I do see it and welcome it when I’m single

[832dreamboy]

I do.

[Pregnant103]

I think so

[gasman70]

most men don't a few do, but the ones who do are the exception not the rule