He's been flirting with me for a few months and I rejected him. He told me that it doesn't mean anything, he's not trying to date me he just flirts with me. However to me, it doesn't work like that.
I would only flirt with a guy I like, I would never waste my time flirting with a guy I don't see myself dating. I find the flirting thing a slippery slope because I would never flirt with a guy friend and then have a boyfriend, that's cheating in my eyes.
So I think it's inappropriate no matter what and it should never happen between two friends.
I wonder if he's just saying this to save his own pride because I rejected him and he's trying to downplay his intentions. Is it really possible for a guy and a girl to remain strictly friends and also flirt with each other? Also where do you draw the line once you get into a relationship with someone else. Because I know for sure my future boyfriend wouldn't be down for that at all.
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Well you are right with what you have said, of course your boyfriend will never be okay if you flirted with some other guy irrespective whether it was fun flirting or not.
In fact I am sure no man would ever appreciate such an act if he is in a committed relationship.
It is good to know that you have morals and standards and that you don't flirt and stuff like that unless you see the man as your potential boyfriend, that is a really good thinking. However, it is also true there are people who just flirt for fun also and this guy friend of yours seems to be just flirting with you for fun.
Given that you don't like that then you should just be upfront and just tell him that you don't appreciate him flirting with you. Tell him to stop or that you will end friendship with him
It means he’s interested in you as far as a serious relationship ship or he just wants to mail you like Jesus. If you’re cute, yes he’s interested, just not sure in which way. Yes he played it off like it was a joke.
Sure, but the flirting would only be a now and then thing.
It sounds really immature, no offense