Are you the clingy type on day one?

[Simslover92]

My bestie who is 37 just met a guy for the first time that we thought would be the perfect guy for her because he has no children and never married and around the same age but he was way too clingy for the first time of meeting. He was pretty much all over her and wanting to be touchy feely which she didn't like at all and I don't blame her.

So are you the clingy type on day one of getting to know someone or do you keep your distance?

[OneViewpoint]

I'm clingy on day NEVER. It's not a good look for anyone. Nor is hovering over anyone. You're not going to keep them honest, you're gonna drive them away. Be chill but be no one's doormat. Give people their freedom. Demand your own freedom occasionally. And appreciate that time away from each other, we all need it.

[Still-alive]

Not on day one but if im really into a girl it might happen to me faster than usual. I try to keep my emotions in check for at least 90 days though so i can feel a little more confident she's right for me

[Still-alive]

This dude you’re describing sounds like the boundary pushing type and i would advise her to maybe move on from.

[Simslover92]

Yes I will. I'll tell her to do that. Thanks.

[queenofcardio]

No , that's such a turn off..

Being too desperate is so unattractive.

[sage2021]

I keep my distance. I sit in another chair or the couch until we know each other better.

[Anonymous]

He's a red flag, he will get worse along the line

[Simslover92]

Indeed he is.

[CubaPirate]

The hell nooo