Who do y'all think is more nervous on first dates?

[gothbxtch]

i totally agree with this tweet!! what are your thoughts, though?

i agree with this based tweet, women

men, but i will not be a dick and spout mra trash in the comments of megan’s question

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+1 y

i was a little nervous about posting this on the misogny website lol, but it was something a friend of mine shared and he agreed with it, and so did i, and i wanted to get people’s opinions! mainly, people have been logical and good so far, so thanks, guys!

[blueonblack22]

Real honest and impartial poll options you got (cough). I guess the idea of playing devils advocate probably rarely occurs to you.

When it comes to first dates it’s usually:

• Men taking the risk of asking for the date to begin. And no most of us don’t “enjoy” sticking out necks out despite what many women think otherwise.
• Men have to plan the date and lead the date.
• Men are usually on the hot seat. It’s like a job interview. The woman gets to decide to hire or pass up the interview. The man might not like the interviewer either. But do most people go to job interviews looking to grill the interviewer about whether they want the job or not? No it’s usually vice versa.
• Speaking of being nervous it’s still even in modern day usually up to the man to make the first move. That can be nerve wracking but most women still conveniently are too afraid if it was vice versa.

Also as for your end all be all “tweet”. Yes women have to look out for their safety. But you f*cking it out like every other guy is a potential serial killer or something. The chances of being in REAL danger is very slim. Also a guy who has a “weird” personality does NOT even remotely qualify as being the equivalent to psychopath.

Women have and continue to have a huge advantage over men in dating when all else equal. Especially in the early stages. But you know just keep denying that fact to pretend it makes it go away

[blueonblack22]

I just realized the QA is 17. I would of been a bit more patient if I double checked her age before posting above.

However I do see women twice her she asking even dumber questions then this occasionally. That’s a different story. They should know better.

[BoobSlayer]

When women go on dates with Boobslayer, it's understandable that they can get nervous. After all, it can be nerve-wracking to meet someone you don't know for the first time!

That's why I always try to put my date at ease and make sure she knows that I'm not here to judge or criticize her. To do this, I make a point of complimenting her melons, boobies, tits, milkers, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas, coconuts, fiery biscuits, cantaloupes, boom booms, and jugs and appreciating her uniqueness.

Another reason she might be nervous with Boobslayer is it's likely because she doesn't know what to expect. That's why I always try to make her feel comfortable and show her that I'm interested in getting to know her better.

To do this, Boobslayer ask her questions, much like on GaG: "What kind of box do you foresee yourself being buried in? Do you enjoy wandering through graveyards? What are your thoughts about Larissa Iceglass? Do you, in fact, like my shoes?" and so on.

[Anonymous]

women. they're expected to look perfect, smell great, look great, dress amazing, etc. there's a lot more pressure put on women in society than men. just saying. it's always about the women in any social situation, always. it's exhausting.

[gothbxtch]

very true!

[Jazzy54]

It’s hard to say. If they don’t know each other prior to the date (blind date), probably both.

[gothbxtch]

blind dates sound very stressful to me, yes!

[Billlewis]

I think men are more likely to be scared to death on the first date than women, but for totally different reasons. A woman has to worry about whether the guy she's meeting is a psychotic maniac, whereas the guy is shaking like a leaf, wondering if she's going to get him to fall for her and then break his heart.

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much for liking my comment, ma'am, I very much appreciate it!

[Anonymous]

I think it's women, but they're also a lot less likely to admit it.
The first thing I do before a date is tell the girl how terrified I am. I feel like it eases a lot of tension too, and helps us both relax a little.
Like, you don't have to impress me, I'm trying to impress YOU lol

[Tyrael]

I think both are nervous but for different reasons.

[gothbxtch]

yeah, that’s fair!

[SnowedIn]

I bet it's equal for the most part and the emotions manifest themselves in different ways/are hidden in different ways.

[Ms_Facesitter]

That doesn't depend on gender but how the individual is.

[RavVid]

I don't agree with either of the options. why do women date men they think might kill them? They don't. It is just stupid BS.

I can't decipher the second option but guessing it's trash.

[OddBeMe]

I’m not in my date’s head during the date.
But after she’s usually disappointed

[exitseven]

I used to get really nervous.

[Smiling_Baby21]

I am always nervous 💯🫣

[Lauliss]

I think both