How can you tell if a man is genuinely romantically interested in you?

[Anonymous]

[Laws-Of-Existence]

What is romance, first of all? Does the man have the same idea about it as you do?

I guess romance is the combination of liking as a friend and lusting after? Is that what you ask?

What is his current relationship with you? Have you dated already? Is he just an acquaintance? ㅤ

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Or your idea of romance is something else? The infatuation that only happens after fornicating caused you a surge of prolactin?

Maybe see it as a server verification? The only way to find out if it is enabled is to send a data packet to it? You can't find out without interacting.

[Mark_Est]

Are talking about men as in men, or as in adult males?

With traditional men it is simple. If you are a virgin and he is dating you then he is genuinely interested in you.

With modern dudes, who date whoever from virgins to temu Bonnie Blues, who the hell knows. Most likely just using whatever ass they can get, cause they have no real values or morals to want anything real.

[Anonymous]

He continuously puts forth effort, and you are clearly a priority over others. Its important his actions show this, because talk is cheap.

[RaySmith]

Normally by the eyes the way he moves and the way he talks to you

[Anonymous]

It ain't that hard to figure out.

[Asker]

Clearly is since I've failed several times to " figure it out" thought a guy was interested in me a handful of times I made a move and got rejected 😅

[Opinion Owner]

Now multiply that by at least 10 and that's a guys experience. Women lead men on and play with men. You don't think men are capable of that as well?
You have to take some rejection to learn from it.
Tell me? What did you learn?

[Asker]

Um... can't say I've ever done that to anyone and learned men only like me as a friend nothing more.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't have to do that anyone. Enough of your sisters already do. Ergo you become gulty by association. Understand?
Women play games with men, men play games back now with women. You're on the recieving end for what others of your sisters have done.
Nobody said this game is fair. And UNFORTUNATELY, make no mistake. It is a game mostly now.

[Opinion Owner]

I can tell you how i deal with it.
I try to be straight forward with women. But a woman has to put effort forth toward me. I can be friendly, but that all she will get from me until she makes an effort beyond that. No amount of HINTS will matter we me. I will ignore every one of them. If she risks nothing she gets nothing.👍

[Asker]

Umm I hear this a lot but the woman I hangout with don't do what your describing either though I do know it's a thing that someone childish women do.
In my experience I personally do a lot of risking and have always been rejected by men some more kindly then others.

I apparently slay with lesbians though which is unfortunate because I'm not gay so getting a girl's number means very little to me as sweet as they might be calling me cute or giving me a slushy or whatever no hate twords them or anything.

The only time men are interested in me is typically when they are drunk as hell and there's nothing else with tits around.

Sometimes I'll think a man is interested in me because he seems to always be next to me talking or walking with me helping me when I didn't ask or expecting it. Giving me nervous little smiles. I ended up making a move which I'm not good at to start then get rejected. On the bright side they are pretty decent friends even though I made a fool of myself.

One of the men still gives me shit that I gave him flowers I typically remind him that he's a rather scrawny man that would fit nicely in the trash compactor when he does. Well also typically shaking my finger at him and tell him to shut up because rather he likes it or not I'm the first person to give him flowers and nobody can take that away from me.

It's funny some of the men I hangout with people confuse as being romantically involved with me but they never have been never will be.

[Pterodon]

Actions or just ask him

[Iron_Man]

The eyes

[Asker]

The eye's?

[Iron_Man]

Yes, they never lie

[Asker]

And how do the eyes tell you?

[Iron_Man]

That they want you