Do his mixed signals at work suggest attraction or just affection?

[Anonymous]

Julian and you have developed a close, sometimes confusing connection at work. Over the past few months, he's shown affection through hugs, physical closeness, eye contact, smiles, and letting you touch his hand and chin. He's also been caring and protective, offering to work in the aircraft bin, wing walk for you, check on you, and spend time with you on the tram.

However, his behavior hasn't always been consistent. Sometimes he ignores your texts, gives short responses, or doesn't acknowledge you at work. Other days, he's extremely attentive and affectionate.

Recently, he smiled when your male friend called you beautiful, appeared uncomfortable when you were talking to another man, and came so close to you that he almost touched your shoulder. He also told you to "have fun" because you were working in different areas.

You've now heard that he might be joining the military, which could change your connection.

My overall conclusion: Julian seems comfortable with you and shows genuine consideration through his actions. There may be attraction, but his behavior doesn't clearly establish romantic feelings or intentions. what does all this mean?

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. He goes hot and cold, but that could just be real life stress that makes him not pay as much attention to you sometimes.

[Asker]

Explain how he gets jealous when I talk to our guy friend

[WhitneySnow]

That’s obvious. He wants you to like him, not some other guy. I have a really bad feeling about this the more I think about it though. I don’t think he really likes you and wants a real relationship. I think he just wants to hook up and move on, or at best a friends with benefits thing.

[WhitneySnow]

Never mind! Ignore all but the first two sentences. I confused you with somebody else.

Julian is actually a really cool name. Hope it works out.

[Asker]

Aww thanks girlie it’s all
Good haha

[Anonymous]

I would tell the manager this 35-year-old woman keeps chasing guys at the office and not doing her work. It's just as bad as men harassing women at work.

[AngryCarl3]

If Julian is joining the military she will never see him again.

[Asker]

You never know paths always cross too

[Anonymous]

Maybe. If your interested, you should make a move.

[Asker]

I did in the beginning but it got messy but I let him in more with seeing I gave him distance first after the first try

[Iron_Man]

That would have to be there in person and analyze it

[Asker]

I think this pretty good

[Danny_dan92]

Don’t sit on dicks from men you work with

[Asker]

Umm he is different

[Danny_dan92]

Ok. Just wait till the shit doesn’t work out and you dread going to work everyday

[Asker]

Danny it’s not like that

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, then how is it then?

[Asker]

He is more affectionate at work yesterday he wouldn’t let me out of his sight

[Danny_dan92]

Pfff ok. Good luck to you