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Is my coworker attracted to me, or is he just being friendly?

Okay, guys, I need your honest opinions because I’m genuinely curious about this situation with a guy at work.

We’ve known each other for a little while, but lately I’ve noticed some interesting interactions between us.

Here’s what’s happened:

I’ve caught him looking at me multiple times, and a female coworker has even noticed the way he looks at me.
One time, he looked directly at me while saying, “That’s her,” to another guy.
Sometimes when he notices me, his eyes widen, almost like he’s surprised or excited to see me.
He’s greeted me with a low-toned “What’s up?” and has initiated conversations.
We’ve exchanged waves, including one where he waved his entire arm at me.
We’ve hugged a couple of times. During one hug, he lightly placed his hand on my lower back.
Most recently, I went to say goodbye, and he greeted me with an “Oh, hey!” while widening his eyes. He then wrapped both arms around me, pulled me closer, and gave me a tight hug that lasted a few seconds.
That last hug happened in front of other coworkers, and he didn’t seem uncomfortable about it.
Sometimes he seems a little nervous or awkward around me, but our interactions feel natural.
We don’t know each other extremely well yet, and I’m not trying to rush anything. I’m just observing how he acts around me.

So guys, what’s your verdict? Does this sound like a man who’s potentially attracted to me and slowly testing the waters, or could he just be naturally friendly?

I’m especially curious about the eye contact, the widened eyes, the lower-back touch, and him pulling me closer during the hug.

Is my coworker attracted to me, or is he just being friendly?
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