I just feel like I can't compete with other guys. I feel like such a loser. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I'm a lame Guy. I'm cool with a lot of people but I just feel like I can't compete with other guys and that most of them are better than me. I feel no matter how hard I try girls won't like me like they like other guys. I feel so lame that I don't even have a Facebook because I know no one gives a damn about me one way or the other. I don't want you all to think I'm doing this for pity I'm doing it because I need help and advice. I just want to know what I can do to be better than every other Guy and get girls and have people actually like me. Thanks to all who help me because I need it dearly.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion there is nothing more "lame" than a guy who's constantly comparing himself to others.

It's your own chosen pursuits & hobbies that make you interesting & attractive to other people. If you have none, or just try to copy everyone else, you're probably not going to attract anyone worth having.

If you get on with your own life and spend your time doing things that are important to you, you will attract girls with similar interests and values. Charting your own course shows confidence, self-respect & intelligence.

[evangelista]

Best answer forever...you at this girl...