My crush is ignoring me help!

[jooofthesun]

There is this guy that I have a crush on and he's kinda popular and I am not and I can assure you, I don't like him for his popularity. He is known as a guy with a big ego and he told me that he can't do girlfriends.. but in fact he does girlfriends, but only dates the most popular girls. anyway He's in my Math class and my business class. In math class, he had to sit next to me because my math teacher made him and we actually made really good friends, and he said hi to me when I walked by and gave me hi fives and everything. We were always talking and he called me a friend. Btw I was always scared of his friends. He stood up for me when his friends were insulting me.Then I started liking him. He and I shared I pods and we texted each other and stuff but he hardely ever started convos on msn and stuff. He asked me if I had a boyfriend and if I would like one and about prom too. I never showed any interest because I was ignoring him but one of his really good firends asked my best friend if I liked him because I was always talking to him. She said no, that I didn't like him because I asked her to not to tell anyone. I could talk to my crush in real life but we never talked online.

Then my math teacher left and he doesn't sit next to me anymore, and he ignores me completely. He dosn't seem to recognise me, or notice me and never says hi to me anymore and today, he had something to ask in school instead of asking me, he asked one of my friends who was right in front of me and didn't even look at me or anything. It's like our friendship never really happened and he remembers nothing. I am really hurt and my friends tell me that I should get over him... but I really can't. He was really nice to me.

Now I am really scared to talk to him, because I am half afraid of him. I feel very imature but Is it because I am not popular enough? Please help. Should I talk to him on msn and say Hi? or is there no hope whatsoever? thank you.

Updates

+1 y

you know what?

i think you are right. Why do I have to lower myself just to get a guy's attention?

[katherine]

look he might have made you feel good for a period of time but look at the other times he intimidates you, he scares you. you are probably an awesome person and being popular is not going to change that, if he can't see that then he never will...you can do better find someone who likes you for you and just won't use you. also guys hate when they are ignored, ignore him make him feel like he didn't exist like it was nothing, like he is not worth your time...it'll give him a big reality check about himself and the way he treats ppl

[Makeuphoarder]

He's playing games.. you should forget about him he seems like an attention whore that seeks validation. He doesn't sound like anything special & for him to just pretend he doesn't know you is an asshole thing to do. Why would you want someone like this in your life? Just stay away from him. He will only hurt you more if you allow it.

[fueledbythc]

there was a girl i worked with and i showed her kindness too and eventually developed a crush on her after a few months. i started ignoring her because im shy as fuck around my crush. she started to try and get my attention by staring me down, and even dming me but i manifested thoughts im not good enough, im a smoker, drunk, stoner, loser etc...

similar situation you're in i feel where that guy feels he's not good enough for you. that shuts a guy down...

[megaman242]

Don't mistake kindness for love. There are plenty assholes out there and they are not assholes 24/7 they can be kind every now and then. People that have met Tump say he is nice, then 2 seconds later Trump stabs them in their back on twitter. I'm not saying he is a bad person, but there are plenty of other to choose from out there. The only thing you can do is to tell him what you feel to his face but be prepared to move on.

[Daniel3035]

Well good. What do you expect all you girls keep playing mind games playing hard to get and ghosting it’s no wonder your crush is ignoring you. You think your his first girl? No when a guy gets messed about enough by fake girls and they see a girl showing interest they ignore you because it’s not worth it. It’s what we all do now.

[shewasahoFORsho]

Believe me, guys do NOT care about popularity when it comes to choosing a girl. Most of the time they think the popular girls are air-headed or stuck up. Guys want a real, down-to-earth girl. And he might be ignoring you because he likes you, and he heard that you didn't like him. Just walk up to him and start a casual conversation. If he can't even be civil, then it's his loss.

[BluesheepOwl]

Guys want the easy girl to mess around with and have fun

[ALWAYSclassy]

Screw him. Don't down yourself or put him on a pedestal. He sounds fickle. Maybe it's because of popularity, maybe a girl he was dealing with told him not to talk to you. Say hi to him once and if he ignores you then the hell with it.

[Bananaman177]

He's just gonna pump you and dump you, what's the appeal?

[Gopnik]

If you still want to go for him don't be scared why be scared it's not like he's going to hit you.
Just talk to him, initiate convos and flirt he'll get the memo

[AriesMale]

Everyone has that mind game personality, just go up to him ask him to talk. Then air out the grievances and it’s a take it or leave it and get closure.

Mind games are the worst thing to happen in dating, after flaking and ghosting.

[JamesRandiDebates]

I'm assuming you are not 26 years old like your profile indicates. And without knowing what age range you are, it's tough to give advice. Different advice would apply if you are a senior in college versus a sophomore in high school versus 7th grade.

[matanpremjur]

hahah. I think that was so obvious

[gothgirl997]

Maybe she's still in college? Lol

[matanpremjur]

@gothgirl997 that's impossible. for example, I am not 19 XD. I just completed that thing at random when I made this profile

[gothgirl997]

@matanpremjur I'm confused. Do you have two profiles?

[gothgirl997]

Some college students are older than others
I know a girl who's 24 and is a sophomore at my class

[gothgirl997]

I'm 21 and I'm a sophomore too...

[JamesRandiDebates]

@gothgirl997 Could be a doctoral student. You could be in your thirties at that point

[gothgirl997]

Maybe

[JamesRandiDebates]

@gothgirl997 Although I don't know of any doctoral students who refer to math class and business class.

[gothgirl997]

That's why she's probably undergraduate

[LtJackass]

Look. Most guys will try and leave you alone completely if we don't think you're interested, because we don't do platonic friendships very well. But who cares about this guy anyway.

[Virgux]

That shit happens. I'm sorry it did, but you can't take it heavy, just find another guy. I'm a really popular guy myself, but that happened to me too. Granted she was a senior and Im a freshman but the point is, dont take it too hard qnd move on.

[Freiburger]

You said you were not interested.
Honestly, what did you expect?

[thothahuramazda]

What do you do when other people have a crush on you and you have a crush of some other person. The answer comes full circle.

[AlexMoon]

So he's ignoring you? Take your own genders advice for guys, leave him alone he obviously doesn't feel like that for you.

[Wolframium]

I shall ignore you as well. :-)
Welcome to the internet. I'm just random asshole.

[Sha84]

because your friends said you didn't like him, so he granted your wish by ignoring you obviously

[TonyWilliams]

Just keep up. These things happen even with me it happened

[damien04]

Tell him that U love him