If a guy compliments your ass after a first date, does that mean he is looking for sex?

[ltmcneill]

so we had a great night...he asked me to text him when I got home to make sure I was safe. I did and he texts back " I enjoy the night with you,and I just wanted to let you know you have a beautiful butt"...should I just cutt him off and accept he is scheming for sex.

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+1 y

well I am getting free outings with this, dinner, bowling, movies etc. I already told him what I wasn't look for, so if he takes me out and later starts acting like a jerk andpressuring me for sex...i will just enjoy the free stuff and consider it a win

[seeya36]

He COULD be after sex. But he also could just really like your butt. You'll know when he's after sex when he actually tries to have sex with you. A guy who says "I had a wonderful time with you tonight," could also just be after sex. My point is, if he hasn't tried to have sex with you yet then give him another try, at least until you're actually sure all he wants is sex.

[BCRanger10]

It's possible, but don't off write him off quite yet. He should have said something different, but saying that doesn't make him a pig. I think he would have said something like "you have a sexy ass". Give him a chance and if he starts pressing for sex, then you write him off.

[sOcrazychickxx]

I think he is aiming towards that way, but it can also be a comment, maybe he thinks that is one of your best physical qualities, but then again it could mean that he wants immediate sex. And that is a little to foward for a first date.

[Anonymous]

That was totally disrespectful. He is after your butt. Let him find a butt to date.

[WeaponZero]

I've read a lot of your questions and I have to say generally you come off as overthinking the situation and being way too paranoid. In this case however I think you are right to be suspicious because that's just plain disrespectful and shows where his real priorities lie IMO.

[MOZZY10]

Don't assume that all men want is sex. . . Believe me its not true

He obviously finds you attractive though, maybe if you were dress more modestly you won't find yourself in such a situation . . .

[ltmcneill]

i was wearing sweat pants and a hoodie...besides it doesn't matter what I am wearing. A woman can wear what she wants, does make it right for you touch her or harrass her after she declines your offer. ridiculous!

[ltmcneill]

i have seen men wearing tight muscle shirts or outside in summer with NO shirt on, does that make it okay for me to run up and grab their di**...NO, it doesn't matter what anyone wears NO means NO. And it is not an excuse to disrespect someone

[ltmcneill]

and yes I wore workout pants and a hoodie on a first meeting, it was a movie date, and its was late minute...i didn't feel like dressing up, except I as I am! goodnight

[Juicy7]

Well, you probably have a nice butt, good for you!

LOL at "scheming for sex"! I think any person that owns an attached appendage generally wants to get that sucker in the nearest available female specific orifice.

Give him a shot!

[Brando]

Oh wow lol. Smooooooth line, poncho!

Yeah, I'd cut him loose.

[Anonymous]

yeah, kinda looks like he's just looking for sex