This guy was asking to hang out with me two weekends in a row and each time I told him I had other plans because I was into another guy at the time. But I know realize this is a mistake and the guy I turned down is really sweet and he's the one I want. Now that I want to see him he tells me he has other things going on all the time. He still texts me almost everyday and so I assume he's still interested so I'm not sure why he won't take the time out to go on a date with me. Did I blow it by first rejecting him and is he just trying to get back at me?