So I am trying online dating because around here small town = few options, alcholism and drug addiction is more common in this area than passing high school. I'm not a local either.
Anyway I went on a coffee date with one of these online dates. Now even beforehand his conversation pieces did raise some red flags - which is why I insisted we meet at a busy coffee shop than even consider his suggestions (e. g. he wanted me to come to his house) - but aside from this he seemed like a decent individual so hence coffee seemed okay.
But in meeting - and I say this despite having been in the military - he really, really creeped me out. As in I kept the lid half off my tea in case I had to actually throw it at him.
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So I wrote to him a little while later and said I'm sorry but I didn't feel anything, good luck, etc. Simple enough. I was nice. Wished him luck. Others would be thanks, okay & go own way.
Not him.
He has written back saying that we have to spend time together, get to know each other better, etc.
He keeps lying about how long we'd been communicating - saying first 1 year then 2 years when it may have been 6 months (work, etc. kept us from meeting up right away) because I haven't been using online dating for that long - and trying to use this to weasal me into agreeing with his ideas. Saying that he loves me (met once) and whatever else.
I'm a little worried about my safety to be honest and what may happen if I tell him off again or just block him. He's... odd.
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BLOCK HIS ASS
Tell a friend - make them aware of the situation.
Checl the locks on your doors and windows.
Carry a knife, taser or gun on you at all times.
This is a level 10 clinker and possibly a psychosth, watch yourself. Your next step is a restraining order
Block him and look into leaving the area.
That kind of guy is the kind to not know when to stop until you're dead.
Facts.
Sounds like he got obsessed with you, infatuated, be careful...🤷♂️