This guy I work with treats me differently than he treats the other girls. He's always teasing me by blaming me for stuff, saying I never do any work, untying my apron string and saying it was an accident. He bumps into me all the time. Then I bump into him back and we argue over who started it. We play argue all the time about the stupidest stuff, to the point where a few people have actually told us to stop arguing.
The thing is he hugs other girls easily but not me. If I ask him for a hug before I go home for the day, he says no or makes a face. Sometimes I'll hug him anyway and he'll stand there without moving, complaining like it's the worst thing ever. Sometimes I'll pull a sad face and he'll hug me, but when he does it's super tight bear hug, like he's trying to crush me. Sometimes he hugs me so tight he lifts me off my feet. It's only when we're outside of work that he'll give me a hug goodbye without me asking, and then they're normal, non-bonecrushing hugs. I don't know what to make of his behavior. Is he just paling around with me? He doesn't really act this way with other girls.
The thing is he hugs other girls easily but not me. If I ask him for a hug before I go home for the day, he says no or makes a face. Sometimes I'll hug him anyway and he'll stand there without moving, complaining like it's the worst thing ever. Sometimes I'll pull a sad face and he'll hug me, but when he does it's super tight bear hug, like he's trying to crush me. Sometimes he hugs me so tight he lifts me off my feet. It's only when we're outside of work that he'll give me a hug goodbye without me asking, and then they're normal, non-bonecrushing hugs. I don't know what to make of his behavior. Is he just paling around with me? He doesn't really act this way with other girls.
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