What makes a "sex worthy man"?

[MaxPrime]

This does NOT mean "How do I get laid?" I'm coming from an angle of respect to women in general. What's the difference between a man who just entertains you ("let's just be friends") and a man who makes you WANT him ("wow I've never felt this way before")? I know confidence is a key factor, but what other actions/principles make him worthy of your sexual desire and attention?

[oldlady]

The difference between sexy and merely likable? You're right - confidence is a big piece. I'm turned on by a man who is competent, as in really really good at one thing that he is passionate about. I'm turned on by a man with the strength of his convictions, who will stake an unpopular position and argue his point but who doesn't just need to always have the last word and doesn't make ad hominem attacks. I'm turned on by a man who adores me so much that he is always looking for ways to please me, and who simultaneously respects himself enough to expect that I will respond in kind. I'm turned on by a man who follows through on what he says he's going to do, who is reliable and trustworthy. All that good personality stuff, but it's also the simple truth that a man who piques my sexual desire has some indescribable chemistry - he looks right and he smells right and when he touches me it sends a prickles up my spine.

[Anonymous]

A guy that shows that he's got some flaws, that he's nervous too. Someone who is just excited to get some action and shows that, that's all he wants, doesn't do it for me. He has to show me that he cares. Little details that he does matter the most. Don't give an overused compliment like, "You're hot." Think of some feature of hers that you really find amazing and point it out to her. That kind of compliment will show her that you're sweet. If she has pretty eyes, tell her something about her eyes.. don't just say "wow your eyes are pretty", think of something original, a little corniness IS cute. Also, if you hug her, hold her. Make a kiss linger. Little tiny details revealing sweetness make a girl totally open, it's easier to relate.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Good looks

Knows how to dress

Swag

Confidence

Fun to be around

Good personality

Has things going for him (no one wants to f* a bum!)

[Anonymous]

mate I think its what comes before sex not what happens during it that makes a girl love and desire you ,although if she enjoys herself she will defiantly want more from you

no puns intended btw

[saulito]

That answer was ridiculous...read the whole question...um..arrghhh matey!!!!

[Opinion Owner]

Im really sorry , but now I have read the question I would say that the main diffrence is flirting a showing a sexual intrest like being touchy and extra talkitive