The hook ups more easily create a tent in one's pants and more easily slip into makeout mode (some in adventurous ways) without being too clingy ... i.e. call me or find me when you want, I have other things to do meanwhile.
The Girlfriend potentials are a bit more creative with other things to do, ability to hang out/interact with his friends/family & interests without always leading him around to do her errands, shopping, schedules that invade all of his lifestyle. These are attentive to his needs and only gently guide him to help serve hers. This is a more giving than taking (see above) relationship on both sides but the more mature (often the gal) has to lead by example at first.
The deciding factor is what the guy's looking for, it's got nothing to do with the girl.
If the guy's a "relationship" kind of guy, then that's what he'll be looking for, someone he can have a relationship with. If he's not looking for a relationship, and he's just out for some p*ssy, then that's what he's going to be looking for, someone that he can just hook up with.
Nothing you can do is going to make a guy who's just looking for some p*ssy want to have a relationship with you. It's just not going to happen until he decides that's what he's looking for.
Hook up girls tend to be really easy and present themselves like they don't have much more to offer than sexual favors so the guy uses her for what she can get about
as long as you don't come off easy/slutty or only talk about sex, it's really about the guy and his intentions.
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Well, I guess it's a similar situation to the difference between 'hot' and 'beautiful'. It really does depend on the guy, but for me personally it's about a girl who is just out of my grasp. I don't know why, but she seems almost unattainable. Add a touch of vulnerability, dimples, freckles and an amazing smile and I will quite simply melt.
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