Hook-up Vs. Girlfriend Material?

[Cathgirl]

I was recently talking to this guy who I met in a professional context and I thought we really hit it off, had similar values and that there was chemistry. Then, he pretty much tried to sleep with me in his office... I was shocked! We'd never even been on a date! Guys, what behaviors or actions give you a vibe that a girl might be easy? I think I must have given him the wrong idea about myself.

[CZLumen]

Just be who you want to be and don't take crap from people.

I don't know why girls are afraid of being ”too easy,” in a sense because everyone's different. Some men will use and lose women regardless of how long it takes, some will kick off an exciting moment is passion and run with it as a relationship.

Relationship martial is someone who you're having to be with regardless of romance. This is your best friend here that you're sharing your finite life with. No secrets and floor it with life.

[OlderAndWiser]

There are some obvious things that a girl could do, like being very touchy-feely or letting the guy have a prolonged look up her skirt. Standing closer than normal, being overly engaged in flirting, being dressed provocatively or overly sexy. . . these are all signs that a girl might be eager for a roll in the hay.

[COCOCHANEL]

he might do that to everyone

[James_R_G]

It's not likely you did anything that warrants your reflecting on your behaviour. Some guys think girls are into then whenever they display an interest however slight. To move so quickly and audaciously this guy just sounds like a scumbag

[Bananaman177]

Not necessarily, that might just be how he treats all women.

"Had similar values and there was chemistry."

Sure sure, and uh. . . how tall was he?

[Cathgirl]

5'9.

[john52461]

He took a chance, what's the big deal? It doesn't mean he thinks you're a ho. If you want to wait then wait. It's possible that he just had a lot of courage that day. You should just bring it with him when you get a chance.

[sudofaux]

Don’t do it. What other girls has he bent over that desk. Obviously if he doesn’t have the energy to court you he doesn’t have the energy to commit

[smølf]

He acted poorly because it's unprofessional behaviours, end of story, if anything he could have asked you for your number or a date, that's it no excuse for anything else.

[OfftheAddy]

There is nothing wrong with you in this situation. He has the problem.

[slatyb]

It's not you, it's him. He approaches every woman that way.

[zzzondarrr]

You shouldn't be thinking much about him, he's obviously very shallow, a fuckboy, don't waste your time looking for a deeper meaning where there is none...

[SifuDoge]

too little information to make an educated guess about his reasons. but the fact that he tried it in his office.. screams douchebag. not even a motel?

[Anon-ymous1]

It had nothing to do with thinking you were easy, he just tried it because he could tell you liked him.

[winterfox10]

To to start with; the fact she flirts with me at her place of employment.

[Cuttyinkc]

Honestly we don't need a vibe or hint we will try anyway, that's how u determine between wifey material and fling

[Anonymous]

If I smash it in my office, you might be my girlfriend in the future

[H2OHydrox]

Not at all. He’s just a creep.

[Intraluminal]

It's not you. It's the guys.

[Evora]

He's more like an inmate material lol

[Regular1]

I've done that. Usually a 25% success rate.

[Humbledman74006]

Or he just feels women are. all meat

[babumoshai]

He must be really tired. Thought about that?