Cancelled our date 3 hours prior due to head-ache. Legitimate or Flake?

[Fiftybelowzero]

Would you mind if we Maybe met up later tonight?

Im really sorry I just have a bad head-ache.

This was going to be the 2nd date. The first went very well for both parties.

Legitimate health ailment or is she just flakey?

The hopeless romantic in me want's to believe her. The realist in me wants to say cut your losses.

What should I do?

[The_Suave]

I would say it's pretty legitimate, stuff happens guy. Last thing you want to do is wig out and be rash about it. Give her the benefit of the doubt and let it slide. You do like this girl right? I mean you do have some feelings for her right? She is a human and humans do end up having headaches.

Listen I know you have rational fears and doubts, but don't let them ruin a good thing. Better yet tell her you'll rent a movie and just drop by, spend the evening on the couch just vegetating, or just give her the time she wants to get stuff in order so that her 2nd date with you won't be rushed.

Who knows she could of had other issues that she didn't want to concern you with, baby setting or family affairs with relatives who are sick or need help, but she doesn't want you to think she's trying to avoid you or what not.

Just be cool calm and collective. This kind of stuff will happen.

[ThunderFox]

Thats a bogus excuse. But try again, if she bails a second time forget her

[kdizzleforizzle91]

If she's already offering to meet you later on the night you'd already planned to meet, she obviously isn't trying to blow you off. Otherwise, she might say "another night" and never actually try to make such plans. I just got over the worst migraine I've had in 2 years a couple nights ago... so I get how disabling some headaches can be. Just give her the benefit of the doubt on something like this. A headache is nothing to get suspicious about.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

Flake. I have headaches all the time but I still go out and do things but she might reschedule...maybe something came up.

Find more women..but keep her as an option.

[rachel05]

dumb excuse unless it was a migraine and she has them often like my sis did.. but more likely that's a flake..

[Fiftybelowzero]

She has told me she get's really bad migraines before but I don't know something isn't sitting right with me. I have come to the conclusion that the best thing I can do is become a hermit.

[rachel05]

haha I don't think that's best but I would talk to her about it.. do yall have common friends? ask them about this..

[SeaGlass]

As a someone who suffers from migraines I can sympathize with her. She said "later tonight" not "never." Try to be understanding. Don't be an ass and give up on her because she has a health problem.

[Anonymous]

Unless she suffers from migraine headaches, it sounds fake.

[c7777]

If she didn't mention another day... flake

[Fiftybelowzero]

She said Meet up Later tonight if it's gone.

[Anonymous]

give her a chance...she might be serious