How to ask a cashier to hang out?

[BleebleBlabble]

Well I just moved to this new city and about 2 days after I JUST moved, I met this girl who is a cashier and I could tell that she had just a little interest in me because of the "look" I was given lol and we had a really good conversation and so when I was leaving I wanted to ask her to hang out or something but since I was new the best that I came up with was "you should give me a tour" of the city, and her response was "we'll see :)" and she smiled and started with the next customer...now I just wanna know if it was a bad idea to approach the situation like that because all I want to do is just have a conversation with her that's long enough to gain some knowledge of her lol...

[djbreal87]

I had the exact same issue lol She was a new girl that worked at the gas station, really really cute, so I would bug her all the time, ask her how her day went, what she was doing later, and eventual just flat out started asking for her number. She denied me every single time of course, but she always had a smile on her face. One day, about 3 days before my birthday, I just wrote my number down, and said "Here, my birthday is the 9th, call me, and wish me a happy birthday, that's all" well she never called, but apperently I can't write my number, cause she said she tried but dialed wrong, so I let it go, and offered to give her a ride home, so she can make it up to me by spending a little time with me. She agreed, turns out she lived like 5 doors down from me lol. It was still pretty early, so I asked if she wanted to do anything, she said she didn't care, so I just picked a direction and started driving. we talked for probably 6 hours, and ended up in another state in the middle of nowhere, I took some really dark secluded street, and ended up driving into a cemetary (why this girl didn't I think I was going to kill her is beyond me lol) but we got out of my car, looked at the stars on a crisp clear night, and had sex on my hood. We were then f*** buddies for the next 4 months until I went off to basic training. I haven't spoken to her in 2 years, great girl though, might give her a call sometime :)

[BleebleBlabble]

hahaha that was the greatest underdog story I've heard all year lol

[Anonymous]

As a cashier myself, I can tell you the feelings from the other side of the till.

I've had a man ask me if I wanted to have a picnic with him after work, and I laughed it off. In my head I was thinking, omg, he's going to kidnap me, or something. We bumped into each other at the pub and he was alright, but his directness was off-putting to me.

Someone suggested explaining your new, or giving her your number. Both are more subtle ways to do it then flat out asking and are strong ways to have a quick, definite, yes or no response of whether she likes you.

You could also try and find out a common interest, eg. films and talk to her about it and then introduce the number as a "hey text me if there's a film you wanna see" or something. Don't start waiting outside her work...it's really, REALLY scary to be followed home (not that you would, but people out there do) Or you could try and set something up with friends? Like, ah me and my mates are going out to the local gig, wanna come along with some friends? She won't feel "alone" if she can bring someone.

[jesshkah]

Not really, she was probably just busy. There were people behind you. Next time you go to the store just be like "so when do you get off? I'm actually new around here so I wasn't completely kidding about the tour haha"

[HannahC]

Spark a conversation, smile, be a regular. I'm a cashier and it's the highlight of my day when someone actually wants to talk to me.

[sodeliciousx3]

if you really really want, you can write your number on a piece of paper and write "call me maybe ?" and see if she does or not hahah

[misschanandlerbong]

"Do you wanna hang out?"