I feel neglected by my boyfriend. What should I do ?

[Nathalie]

I feel neglected by my boyfriend. I feel like he doesn't even care about me anymore. He makes me mad and he knows I'm mad and does nothing about it. Sometimes I text him and he just simply doest text back. I only se him about 2 times a week , he works and goes to school and so do I. On his free days its like I have to ask him to come over, he doesn't seem to miss me and be eager to see me. Although when we're are together its great I couldn't ask for anything better, I really think he just doesn't give a damn. I really love this guy and I don't want break up but this whole situation is wearing me thin.. I need some advise plzz :(

[999freakshow]

I"ve been in this situation, and the guys are right you need to talk to him about this as soon as possible and you need to explain how you feel. If he does nothing about it then he really doesn't care about you and you should move on. Which is the hardest thing to do I know but if you keep going like this it might damage you. I put with my ex's bad behavour for a long time and it ruined me. Don't make that mistake :) If he loves you he'll fix this no matter what you know that saying ''If a man wants to be with you nothing will keep him away'' Trust me it's true!

[butterfly85]

Just stop texting and answering him now at this point. Behave like he doesn't exist. If he is aware it and try to connect with you again, just tell him your present feelings and show him what he did. After then you have to decide you want him back or not. But in my opinion he will not be aware changing of your behavior, if he does, probably he will think ohh I got away of this boring situation. I hope he turn back to you. But now time to turn your back him. Good luck!

[Nathalie]

I think I'm going to try this.. thanks

[rougecerise]

You really need to be talking to him. We can all guess, but we don't know what's going on in his head. The key to a good relationship is communication.

Good luck!

[MrOracle]

Tell him exactly how you feel (as you did here), but don't offer any solutions; let him decide what to do about it himself. Either he'll decide to take more initiative, or he won't. And if he doesn't, then you can decide from there what you want to do.

[dawnfang]

You could talk to him about how you feel when you are hanging out with him. Tell him everything you put here about how you feel about the state of the relationship. On a side note those wedges you (or your friend) are wearing are ginormous.

[Nathalie]

Thanks.. Haha its me , and the wedges are tall or big at all. Its looks like that because the person who took the pic was on the floor, and my legs are close to the camera. If you notice the shoes look bigger than my head :P

[dawnfang]

Thanks for clarifying that about the wedges, love the dress too. Anyway, you should be able to tell how he feels after you talk to him. Life can get busy, especially if he works and goes to school.

[dawnfang]

Thanks for ba!

[Yeahhbro]

To me it seems this guy is doing what most guys do. We just live in our world and become dormant or in other words too relaxed. its not that he doesn'ty like you, it is that he just became too comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you have hot pizza in the oven. That will get him over quickly. :)

[Nathalie]

Its not funny, honestly :/

[Opinion Owner]

I was being serious. Us guys are always hungry. You want to lure the bear into your lair, you have to bait the trap!

[3336PS]

yeah...those were the only time he called...to go out for food...at the end, he told me he was not happy...

[Icantthinkofoneee]

Hey, did you ask him? I’m going through the exact same thing

[Anonymous]

suck it up and be a woman about it woman do the same to men.