Why can't hot girls be more humble?

[Anonymous]

It's great that they're hot and everything, and great that they know it, but that doesn't mean that they're entitled to be b*tches or mean that they deserve more than someone else, or that they can do no wrong. There are so many girls that will do a guy wrong and instead of taking responsibility, they'll turn it on the guy and blame him for things going wrong, and just act completely insane.

I don't know, I just wish that more girls that were attractive were a little more down to earth and sane. It's great that you know that you're pretty. That can even be a turn on, but humility is really important. Be nice to everyone, and not like the fake kind of nice, genuinely nice. Compassion and empathy in all the right moments. There just aren't enough girls like this :(

[GoodManDave]

Now, if I were super rich, I might come across more as a jerk because, as a poor guy, I have a low tolerance for jerky people now, and I try to avoid dealing with them as much as I can, but I find myself still having to deal with more rude, nasty people than I want to. So, with the money (and freedom), I'd probably be a lot less forgiving of nasty people; and therefore I might be more willing to speak my mind and call them on their garbage; that might come across as more mean or blunt. Hopefully it would not make me cruel.

The gorgeous people get a lot of breaks in life. They get a lot of stuff for free, they're used to people being nicer to them (overall), doing more for them, etc. It might even be that underneath, they are miserable people because they know that it's because of some superficial thing that they get farther in life; it's gotta make some of them wonder...

However, I know plenty of nasty, cruel, mean people that are lucky for whatever reason. They're not good looking, or smart, or even genuinely kind, but they know something that makes them popular, or they meet the "right people." And I know some girls who are beautiful and they seem kind... until you do something they don't like, or they can't "use" you any more, so the fake kindness is now off the table. They're almost worse because you waste more time thinking they're someone else than with the people who are nasty and upfront about it.

And I know gorgeous people who are genuinely kind. It's rarer, but it does happen.

[Anonymous]

lol I know the fake looking bimbos that treat everybody like sh*t get on my nerves fast. But, what do you expect, these girls have been treated like princesses since they were kids and they get everything handed to them on a silver platter. Most are bound to develop a pretty arrogant, vain and ugly personality. It's like kids that grow up super rich, they have no idea what an average person go through to make money. To them it's nothing. What annoys me is people thinking they are the greatest and better than others though they have done NOTHING on their own, just got lucky at birth. That part is very irritating. You can be very pretty and very rich, you also have the capability to very much shut the f*** up and not brag and rub it in every body's face.

[indian_empress_91]

I consider myself pretty, but when I was a teenager I was shy and really bony and didn't think I was all that pretty and since I was shy then some guys thought I was stuck up..but I have always been humble up to this day, everyone compliments me and some part of me is always like shocked, but I know I am attractive, I am also kind to everyone and I am really compassionate, and down to earth...i am clumsy dorky funny,I am outgoing but with some people my kinda shyness comes out... when people get to know me they are like shocked that I am so nice and sweet...and I'll be like shocked cause anyone who knows me knows that I smile and laugh a lot of the time, and I know myself to be the opposite of stuck up... the only time I act bitchy is if a guy isn't taking a hint that I don't like him that way or want to go out with him stuff like that or if he's being disrespectful to me or my family

[bijinbijinbijin]

Everyone's opinion of "Hot" or attractive is not the same after all.

some people think Kim Kardashian is hot and beautiful, while others think she is ugly

some women might think that Leonardo dicaprio is hot or gorgeous but personaly, he is not my type at all.



some guys find simple plain looking girls who wear no make up to be smokin hot, some guys think nerdy girls are hot, some guys think girls who like to show off so much skin and have their boobs and butt showing to be hot and some guys think that humble shy girls are smokin hott. every one is different

maybe you should broaden your view of attractiveness so that you are not stuck with only finding bitchy girls as being attractive.

[emilyemilyy]

As they say, absolute power corrupts absolutely. Hot girls generally get a lot of what they want; jobs, guys, attention... with all of this, they may gain extreme confidence, and eventually power. With this power, their confidence only grows, sometimes turning them into the "bitches" you talk about.

[Iamnobody]

well not all of them are even though it seems that way. some just let the fact that they're attractive and therefore have the power to control the world with their sexuality, consume them. but there are plenty of other beautiful girls out there who have self esteem issues, are shy, introverted etc. to you it may seem stand offish but in reality maybe they just don't have confidence. the world is full of illusions.

[artemisx]

A lot of guys find my friend hot, but they also tell me that she seems really stuck up. I've known her for a long time, and she is smart, funny, and most of all one of the kindest friends I've ever had! She's extremely shy though so when guys approach her she gets embarrassed and clams up. I guess guys take this as her giving the cold shoulder, when really she's just really shy. :/ I think the more attractive a person is, the more people judge them to be self centered.

[helloyes]

i agree. I've always connected best with top tier sorority girls. out of like 15, I've only met one stuck up hot girl. lot of them are shy (especially if they were ugly growing up). people just judge them because they're attractive.

[upood]

Maybe theyre shy... why do people keep thinking that hot girls can't be insecure or shy... they usually are! I am super shy and come off as stand offish and I'm working on it but its hard, don't just write people off like that... make a little more effort or don't but don't judge like that

[coolguy1989]

Too many people believe they're better than other people...regardless of status, they're still human and they're still prone to error...I think those people like to believe that they're not error prone because I think it makes them feel good to know that they are supposedly "perfect". It's a confidence boost, hot or not

[DeidreK]

I do consider myself beautiful but I do think I am more humble. I know every guy isn't going to be attracted to me and I know I have flaws. I treat people the way I want to be treated, because I see everyone as equal. I'm sure there are girls out there like that, you just have to keep looking.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

Its kinda like asking dictators to give rights and freedom to their civilians.

Not gonna happen lol.

Their hotness is power.

But anyways not all hot girls are evil.

[Asker]

No, just the 2 in 100 that might actually find you attractive :/

[SGirlsGH]

Exactly. They use it to get what they want out of you. If they are stringing you along its so that they will always have a guy there to make them feel "pretty" when a douche bag mistreats her. I have been strung along plenty of times. It sucks.

[Dovahbear]

Why can't hot guys be nice?

Everyone is different. Not all hot girls act like crazy bitches and not all hot guys are arrogant f***tards. Not all "un-hot" people are nice either.

[DeidreK]

I agree.

[Asker]

This is also true.

[Anonymous]

I read somewhere that if you're shy and average or ugly then people assume you're just shy. On the other hand if you're shy and beautiful people think you're stuck up. I think people also assume hot girls to be mean. If an average girl says she is ugly people cheer her on and tell her how pretty she is but if a pretty person feels insecure people say she is just trying to get attention.

[TurbulentDan12]

Would you be humble if you were told a dozen times a day how hot you were?

At some point it gets to everyone's head.

That doesn't mean they need to be bitchy, but humans look at attractiveness in a strange way. It's a power

[Asker]

I don't go around telling girls that they're hot, even if they are... I'd rather not be apart of that problem. I blame the bone-headed guys that go around only looking for a f***. They always ruin it for good guys.

[TurbulentDan12]

It doesn't have to be you. There are always going to be guys there to let them know they're hot. It's not about being good or not, it's kind of an unavoidable problem.

[japanblitz]

Power isn't temporary. Looks fade. Beauty is a depreciating asset

[Asker]

Yeah but only because you can't control other people. There are a lot of dumb guys out there that will try to suck up to just about any good looking girl just to try and get laid. I feel it's different if you actually like the girl and you're giving them a genuine compliment but at that point it should be more of a personal thing, not "ohh I'm so hot just because one guy finds me special."

[TurbulentDan12]

That's why smart guys don't feed a girl's ego.

And yes looks fade no doubt about it

[antonlikesmlb]

I find that a lot of more attractive chicks are really nice. There are some that have terrible attitudes though.

[Asker]

In some situations yes, but they seem so guarded and cold most times to where you don't even want to bother talking to them. They just come off stuck up in that way, or you try to make conversation, yet they don't respond favorably because they don't seem to want to talk. Maybe I've had a couple of bad experiences or something, but many just seem to have put-offish attitudes yeah.

[thisusername2]

That was my first thought too. Most hot girls I have met are actually really nice. Some are bitches but not many, about the same percentage of as girls who are not as attractive. Same for hot guys, they are not all jerks too but so many people assume they are players and jerks.

[Mindofcyanide]

I agree with this completely. However, it's not something they can help as the media has twisted their feeble little minds to the point of corruption. It's just how social hierarchy works, with the people with a good looking exterior on the top, unfortunately.

[kia58]

I know beautiful, perfect looking, model like girls who are nice and kind.

I am not one, but I know them, honestly.

[Asker]

WWell that's the kind of girl I'm looking for!

[kia58]

You and every other guy who has met her. Good luck! xD

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

The b.itchiness stems from their insecurity, find a way to manipulate that insecurity and you'll get the most b.itchiest b.itch purring like a cat and eating out of your palm.

[Anonymous]

ya it sucks that people suck, but it goes the same for guys. so when I do find someone I make sure I get a number and keep in contact. its the best you can hope for.

[Asker]

I wish I knew this in high school. I had the girl I liked's number but actually tried going for it, instead of just staying in contact. That's all I should have done, because going for a young, immature (in the sense of being naive) pretty girl is just bad decision making. Our friendship was ruined.

[Anonymous]

Dude seriously, guys that are "hot" act that same way. Don't get sh*t twisted.

[Brando]

Grrr

Damn those hot girls

[Asker]

hahah I know right?

[DrPhiI]

Why can't ugly losers complain less

[Asker]

I'm not ugly and have a handful of hot friends, but that's all. I don't consider them as any more than friends, but they still act so skiddish sometimes.

[peace-love-couture]

This lolol

[Anonymous]

Something tells me you're ugly.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever idiot.

[Asker]

Exactly bruvleigh lol, and I'm actually not too bad looking but girls these days are ridiculous.