Girls always looking to trade up?

[Anonymous]

This is more of a topic to comment on.

Guys be careful, girls are always willing to trade their boyfriend for something better. Don't mean to sound arrogant but as a "very hot/educated/wealthy guy" I've been amazed at how many 'taken' girls approach me and how far I can get with them, even with their bfs in the same room. Even my cousin's girlfriend was making it super obvious at a dinner. I avoided her like the plague for the rest of the night. A girl even broke up with her boyfriend to date me (although I wasn't interested). I felt bad because I never liked her in that way, didn't see her that often, and thought the flirting was innocent. she told me she was "trading up".

Do you agree with me? Do you think it's wrong or okay?

By the way, this even applies to girls who 'only have eyes' for their boyfriend. The ones who believe their boyfriend is the best guy. lol what a joke. I'm strangely bitter about this although no one has ever stolen a girl from me...yet.

[Anonymous]

Il say this on here anonymously, im 35, 6ft4, and not grotesque, engineering and piping is my business.
A few years ago I was stupid/ naive, fell for and trusted the most warm gentle creature on this world, sceptical at first but time and actions changed my mind.
Its been a long time since learning about her having fabricated almost every minute of our history from the start. She took delight in telling me before just getting in the next shiny car.
Point of the story is, noone sees what they ignore, a man works to pay tax and still just sits by himself every single second after hours and years down the line he hasn't thought of looking again, work suffers, the income vs my time when the incentive and point just trades up is not worth spending generating wealth and assets. I miss my friend and money cannot fix that.

I dont need pity, just think what you do ladies.

[Anonymous]

It is called "Grass is Greener Syndrome". If a girl is in a relationship and sees a guy she thinks is better, she sometimes might drop the relationship or start question it to be with that better guy. Sadly, it is nature. Women are choosy and men are competing. So even if a girl is in love with a guy and finds him to be a pretty great guy, her subconscious wants her to pick the best possible man, so she will go to that guy.

Obviously it isn't okay to try and cheat with your partner or drop them for someone else, but it is just natural behavior.

[Anonymous]

I'm not married so it's not like I have a lifetime commitment to my boyfriend and vice versa, neither does he. If I think I could be happier with another guy then I'm gonna explore my options. That being said, plenty of guys do that too. Aren't you supposed to get the best person you can have?

[Asker]

It's just that so many girls don't even really like their boyfriends - when a lot of these guys want to give their girls the world. If that's the case, playing with his emotions is just selfish. Their low self esteem and fear of being alone makes them drag along and ultimately damage a good guy.

[notsoserious]

Its wrong but guys also do it, it is not limited to gender but rather the morals of someone. Who you choose as your partner says a lot about your life choices in general so be careful who you choose

[bcjones1]

I think it's wrong most girls don't realize that they should be satisfied with what they've got.

[Anonymous]

some are, this goes for guys too, you can't always tell, so just don't worry and enjoy the time you do have together.

[Anonymous]

Your point?

[Asker]

No point, it's informational. Most people are sh*tty, so if guys ever find someone not like that they should hold on tight.