Ok i am gonna make a long story short
I met a 18 yo girl she was full flirty with me hug me flirt with me all the time and she was asking me when i will take her for a ride with my moto.. i said ok lets go.
We went for a ride she was hugging me tight and still full flirt.. after we made a stop some kisses and touchy touchy you know.. after we went for a ride again.. we stopped somewhere and someone passed in front of us she said she was her ex and she wanted to change place.. soo i said ok lets go. After she was a bit cold not soo much touchy touchy with me and kissy kissy.. and aftet that she became cold and distant.. she still text me but her interest is not like before.. if i ignore her she ask me what i. am doing and stuff.. but if i text her she just answer my questions never care about ask me back anything.. and after a while we stop talking..
by the way she is also hanging out with some loser people who smoke weed all day and do nothing else.. and she does the same.. she thinks smoking weed and hang out with this people is cool. Probably because she is 18...
I also told her to go out again she said what time i told her.. she said ok i am bit busy we talk later and later she answered after almost an hour of our date and told me she falled asleep and then that she will go for a coffe and weed probably with these people again.. never invited never asked plus i wouldn't go.. i dont like her behavior and the lifestyle she does but she is cute and pretty.. any advise?
by the way i 99% accepted that the best move on the chestboard right now is to ignore her and focus on me and this isn't going anywhere.. just wanna hear ur opinion before i do
I met a 18 yo girl she was full flirty with me hug me flirt with me all the time and she was asking me when i will take her for a ride with my moto.. i said ok lets go.
We went for a ride she was hugging me tight and still full flirt.. after we made a stop some kisses and touchy touchy you know.. after we went for a ride again.. we stopped somewhere and someone passed in front of us she said she was her ex and she wanted to change place.. soo i said ok lets go. After she was a bit cold not soo much touchy touchy with me and kissy kissy.. and aftet that she became cold and distant.. she still text me but her interest is not like before.. if i ignore her she ask me what i. am doing and stuff.. but if i text her she just answer my questions never care about ask me back anything.. and after a while we stop talking..
by the way she is also hanging out with some loser people who smoke weed all day and do nothing else.. and she does the same.. she thinks smoking weed and hang out with this people is cool. Probably because she is 18...
I also told her to go out again she said what time i told her.. she said ok i am bit busy we talk later and later she answered after almost an hour of our date and told me she falled asleep and then that she will go for a coffe and weed probably with these people again.. never invited never asked plus i wouldn't go.. i dont like her behavior and the lifestyle she does but she is cute and pretty.. any advise?
by the way i 99% accepted that the best move on the chestboard right now is to ignore her and focus on me and this isn't going anywhere.. just wanna hear ur opinion before i do
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Personally, 28 is too big an age gap from 18. In another perspective you’ll be 31 when she’s ready to hit the real party scene at 21. I’d say cut your losses and walk away. Age gaps aren’t a big deal but this one spans a period of maturity and she’s not playing at your level.
Soo its because she not mature she behaves like that?
Sounds like it. Then again, what 18 year old is mature? I wasn’t. Really haven’t met many that are.
If she's playing hard to get, that's probably a good thing.
How is that any good?
Because if she was only interested in you casually, she'd probably just go through the motions, so to speak.
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