My boyfriend has caught me flirting online, and now he hasn't spoke to me for over a month!

[Anonymous]

My question to everyone. my boyfriend of four years has caught me flirting online. Its not the first time and we always broke up because of it. I never cheated I did it for a laugh when he was at work,I did text them but never met any. I denied it and used to convince him. this time he was snowed off and came home while I was upstairs and it was on the computer. He is being stubborn as its been over a month and hasn't spoke to me. What do I do to get around to him?

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+1 y

Sigh...I guess after reading everyone's responses on here and STILL not getting a reply back from here I guess I've no choice but to move on...oh well thanks anyway.

[snjokorn]

You didn't do it for the laughs. You needed attention when he was away, I don't think you guys should be in a relationship, you're ruining it by hurting his feelings with your idiocy, I'm sorry to tell you this, but when a person is in a dedicated relationship, he/she does not flirt with people just for the "fun of it".

[confugirl]

You can't just yo-yo him back and forth as you please. You hurt him multiple times and you still think he's being unreasonable? If he constantly flirted with other women in front of you, you would be flipping out! Leave him alone and move on.

[smokahontas]

It looks like the cat has lost it's final life. You really can't do anything, he has to come to you. Sounds like he is over with it. Move on and try to learn from your mistakes.

[Theguyoverthere]

He doesn't have to go to her and he is not going to. It would be up to her to try and remedy things.

[Anonymous]

Can you blame him? You've violated his trust on multiple occasions. Why would I want to help you get him back so you can just do it again? Sorry...not going there.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's done with you

[ghiwa]

girl once trust is broken ... the whole relationship is ruined . ps if you truly loved him you wouldn't even talk to any of these guys online . Find your self someone else you truly love . PEROID.

[Theguyoverthere]

You really call someone a boyfriend when they have not talked to you for a month? Are you serious?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You find someone else. He's done with your cheating.

[Anonymous]

You stay away from him and get some major psychological help for your selfishness and possible narcissism.

[Vandal]

Seems like your relationship is doomed, I'm afraid.

[Anonymous]

"I never cheated I did it for a laugh when he was at work"

Thats all huh? what if he did that? would you be cool with him flirting with other girls?

[shadowscapes]

do you know the definition of insanity?