Why do girls dwell on the past?

[Anonymous]

Ok so me and my girl have been great in nothing has been going on and we have been communicating well. Yesterday she went to the mall with her friend. She was happy and called me after. We talked then when we talked she brought up how she knew I loved her. One main thing was she talked about how my behavior changed. I use to go to a lot od parties when we first met. Then she brought up how I danced with other girls. Than that lead to different past events where she felt sad because of me she says. Then I tell her that I think it is good to talk about events full then after that drop them. This ws because she asked me if I was sad right now and I told her when she talked about this it made me feel like a bad person and made me hate myself. After this she was real quite she said she had nothing really to say. A complete mood change. I asked if she wanted to say anything and she said she thought it was better if she didn't say it. I told her how much I loved her and we talked some more and she went to sleep. Girls what do you think?

[martyfellow]

She brings thi sup because you often hurt her feelngs, and no one readily forgets that, maleor female, Spanish or Sudanese.

You have to make up all the past hurt to her. That's not so difficult, but it requires admitting you were wrong. You don't need to feel bad; she just wants you to SAY you DID bad!

[SweetTeaGirl]

If that had been me, it definitely would have been PMSing. My best bet is she'll get over it, because at the beginning she said you were so much "better" now. She'll realize what's past is past and see how lucky she is to have you. Good luck! :)

[Asker]

Makes sense. I forgot her period just started.

[SweetTeaGirl]

Well then I bet that's it. XD

[baabyput]

same as SweetteaGirl .. If it has been me , that would also have been PMSing =)) Like us girls are so emotional sometimes ..