Am I wrong for having a sexual crush on my mother in law?

[highdeeznutz]

well she is a verry sexy looking and acting woman for her age.. always been fit, well dressed and smells good. but I have this urge to wanna bang her. am I wrong?

[Lauren2410]

Do you love your wife? I'm just asking.It's OK to find another woman sexy,but not act on it.And it's your MOTHER IN LAW. It's even more wrong.

[highdeeznutz]

i don't believe in that love word... but I tell you this she is something better than my wife or lover... she is first before anything my best friend... we can always get a divorce but friends we will never stop being...

[Lauren2410]

You would stop being if you do something with your mother in law. Since she's your best friend,which means you really care about her,if you do not want to use the word love.

[rachiee]

Its okay to find her sexy but once you act on it then of course not.

[highdeeznutz]

yes. you're all right.. I would never act on my feeelings towards her.. I just had to get that thought out in the air. maybe it will help me... but looking at you're pic made me forget about everything

[ThrowMetotheWolves]

Look at your left hand, at the ring finger and remember WHY it's wrong in every sense of the word.

[highdeeznutz]

you know after 13 plus years of marriage I've never wore my wedding ring. marrieage, and love don't exist in my world... I was once told "the day I wear my wedding ring is the day I don't make it back home" so.. I see nothing in my ring fingers to remind me.. I know its wrong to feel that way but I'm trying to deal with it.

[ThrowMetotheWolves]

Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging you. No one here knows the reality of your marriage but you. It sounds like you're miserable in your marriage. You're still young enough to get out of it, if you elect to, and try to find some happiness and love for yourself. But, how you handle it will be up to you.

[highdeeznutz]

thank you. I point well taken... my relationship is great.. and its the only thing I hold on to.. trying to stay together now a days is a rare thing. but that love thing sucks

[snowangle]

Of course that's wrong. You're married!

It's normal to find other women attractive, but it's not okay that you have an urge to act on it.

[highdeeznutz]

well I don't have the urge to act. but I do have that sexual attraction to her every now and then.. it was worse before. now I'm a bit more in control

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Probably a good idea to keep that one a fantasy.

[highdeeznutz]

true... fantasies are always nice to have..

[iluvchewbucca]

imagine your wife banging your father.

[highdeeznutz]

my daddy went to the store for cigarrettes when I was young. and he never came back.. looooollll...

[kangaru]

It is not right

Whats wrong w people these days

[highdeeznutz]

yes. I understand... its just a fantasy.. won't ever fullfilll it

[kangaru]

U have to take care of your thoughts

[onelifeornolife]

Man I’m just like you she dresses more wel than my wife

[Anonymous]

Yes

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[highdeeznutz]

thanks... I'm getting pounded by the females today for asking that