My crush has asked me out. Twice. And I can't accept! Why?

[random-ren]

I've never had a boyfriend before.

The first time he asked, I thought I need more time to mature before taking that plunge.

The second time, I got this weird feeling in the pit of my stomach that made me anxious and want to refuse. It happens every time I think about it.

I love him, but I don't understand why I feel this way. Any suggestions?

[faberfan]

Let's be honest now. You certainly LIKE this fellow, but you don't love him. If you did, well, you'd be with him now.

I think you are just terribly nervous about seeing him, and maybe ruining it somehow. The problem is that he has asked twice now, and he may never ask again because you've rejected him. You need to ask him out if you want to gain any respect back in his eyes.

[Hiya01]

I'm in the exact same situat ion as you, I liked him and he liked me. He asked me out last week and I said that I'd rather be friends and ficus on my studies. Everyday on the way to school I feel really anxious and sick and thinking whether it's going to be awkward at school and everything. He follows me around school and texts me every day... it's getting a little weird now. The thing is he asked me out again tonight saying "Are you sure you don't want to give it a try just once and we can end it if things don't work out". I said the same reasons as I said before and we just ended the coversation. You do like hI'm otherwise you wouldn't feel like this and this anxious feeling is also what put me off going out with him. Hope this helped x

[angel713]

Well you should say yes if it happens you won't marry him just hang around for sometime. But the thing is that when a guy asks you 2 times and gets rejected or no signs of you been interested in him he may move on. What I would suggest for you to do is ask him out before nothing happens and he moves on.

[obligations]

cause your scared of it finally happening. say yes next time.

[boi818]

he's not asking you to marry him.. he's asking to be exclusive with him.. unless you can't do that..i don't see why you wouldn't go 4 it.